You know, this reminds me of the incident with Rihanna. For those who don't know what Im referring to, Rihanna wore a
dress made of crystals that was sheer enough to show her breasts and behind. When I personally saw the dress, I fell in love because 1. She was bold enough to wear it and 2. It is a fine looking dress. But she got a lot of heat from it, people calling her trashy, a slut and all kinds of stuff. Others liked the dress and so on. It just upsets me how sexualized this country is where showing breasts to the public is so taboo. I mean, most of us after birth saw a breast at least once in our life. It wasn't like her vagina was showing.
I'm not going to lie, I used to slut shame myself (Only I used to say ho, so more like ho shame) until I met some "hos" and came to befriend them and understand more about women and sexuality and how backwards it really is. It enlightened me. Now I no longer ho shame because 1. That would be hypocritical of me since I've done the whole friends with benefits things (which I don't recommend. Try F-buddies instead. Less emotional strain) 2. I don't think anyone should feel ashamed of themselves for expressing their sexual behaviors as long as they're safe and respect themselves 3. If a man/female just likes to fuck, and thats truly all they care for regarding their actions (without it being an outlet for personal struggles with love, acceptance and etc.) GREAT for them. I don't care who anyone fucks, as long as they're not hurting anyone in the process, including themselves.