I didn't see a thread like this, which kind of surprised me, but anyway.
I'm adopted, and so is my younger brother from a different family. I've known my whole life I was adopted, so there was never a "big reveal" or anything like the ones they love showing in tv shows and movies. My mom couldn't have children, so they eventually turned to adoption. My brother and I both look relatively like my parents, and it was a closed adoption from birth so I've never met them or really know anything. Technically my mom had more information, but she lost it when she was packing up lots of our important papers back in the early thousands when we had tons of hurricanes down here in Florida. I have about one picture, and a terrible picture at that, and a few little tidbits from my mom from what she vaguely remembers.
Technically once I was 18 I could fill out some paperwork to get more information, but I haven't yet and I don't even know if I really want to. I do want to find out some information, like my actual heritage, do I have siblings/half-siblings, family disease history, etc. But I don't know if I want to go so far as meeting them. I think they were quite young (18/19 I believe?) and possibly still in high school. I was born roughly two hours away from here so there's a pretty good chance there still live really close by.
I think it would be really interesting to see and meet someone who will look oddly like me, and I've always been fascinated with the nature/nurture debate so I'd love to see if there's anything personality wise I got from them.
But I'm still pretty terrified, though I might at least try filling out that paperwork soon.
I'd love to hear more from other adopted kids, did it affect you an anyway, do you know your biological parents, anything you'd like to share.
I'm adopted, and so is my younger brother from a different family. I've known my whole life I was adopted, so there was never a "big reveal" or anything like the ones they love showing in tv shows and movies. My mom couldn't have children, so they eventually turned to adoption. My brother and I both look relatively like my parents, and it was a closed adoption from birth so I've never met them or really know anything. Technically my mom had more information, but she lost it when she was packing up lots of our important papers back in the early thousands when we had tons of hurricanes down here in Florida. I have about one picture, and a terrible picture at that, and a few little tidbits from my mom from what she vaguely remembers.
Technically once I was 18 I could fill out some paperwork to get more information, but I haven't yet and I don't even know if I really want to. I do want to find out some information, like my actual heritage, do I have siblings/half-siblings, family disease history, etc. But I don't know if I want to go so far as meeting them. I think they were quite young (18/19 I believe?) and possibly still in high school. I was born roughly two hours away from here so there's a pretty good chance there still live really close by.
I think it would be really interesting to see and meet someone who will look oddly like me, and I've always been fascinated with the nature/nurture debate so I'd love to see if there's anything personality wise I got from them.
But I'm still pretty terrified, though I might at least try filling out that paperwork soon.
I'd love to hear more from other adopted kids, did it affect you an anyway, do you know your biological parents, anything you'd like to share.
October 20th, 2013 at 08:03am