TMI Tuesday Everyday! (part 6)

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    Now I'm just waiting till I get to sit on this guy's face Shifty
    August 1st, 2019 at 05:21am
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    Me again, William hit me up talking about how he wanted to make me scream in his ear, and squirt all over him. Happy face
    February 28th, 2020 at 06:38pm
  • Unown

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    Really bummed because I've bled again. :( The implant hasn't worked in the way I hoped it would. Is there anything else I could try that might stop periods?
    March 11th, 2020 at 01:29pm
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    I think my period's finally getting back on track (I know this isn't that tmi but i thought it fits here better than regular confessions). I've had my period for a month last month and it was constantly messy. I'm just glad this time of the month wasn't.
    March 13th, 2020 at 07:56pm
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    Really bummed because I've bled again. :( The implant hasn't worked in the way I hoped it would. Is there anything else I could try that might stop periods?
    depends when you got the implant in. if it's within the first six months of being put in, it's still taking time to work. if it's after that, i'd speak with your gp. unfortunately it isn't guaranteed to work, i'm on the implant and i have always had really heavy periods so i know the pain. don't get my period AS often, but when i do it's usually really bad. my doctor suggested switching to a different contraceptive to lighten the flow like the coil but i'm far too scared of it to be honest.
    March 21st, 2020 at 12:40am
  • final fantasy

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    my boyfriend and i haven't had sex in 2 months because we've been either ill, in pain or just downright tired. our sex life has always been a little less than what i'm used to, but it's fine. although i think something's gonna happen in the next week or so because he's been hinting at it and i am so fucking ready to just get ploughed like no tomorrow.
    March 21st, 2020 at 12:42am
  • Unown

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    Thanks for the help! That's reassuring to know, I have had mine for coming up to three months now.

    I'm honestly scared to talk to the GP who inserted it for me because he was very clear about his recommendation to take birth control pills as well as having the implant for the first three months to prevent spotting, but my previous experience of BC pills have completely put me off them. I feel the same way about the coil. I feel you, I've always had really heavy periods too and it is actually horrendous. I don't think the effects that women's periods can have on them is taken half as seriously as they should be.
    March 21st, 2020 at 06:17pm
  • final fantasy

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    Oh I completely agree. I spoke to a male GP at first and he just didn't help whatsoever. My main GP now is a woman who has helped me so much. She put me on tranexamic acid tablets which help lighten the flow of my periods when I do have them. You only take them four times while on your period, though! Like two tablets, twice a day for four days. It really has helped. Maybe book an appointment for another GP if possible! I know it's uncomfortable to talk to with certain GP's, so I completely get you.

    It's no problem, however. It's always comforting to know that someone else is in the same boat so, being able to discuss it is always a good thing. However, if you've only been on it for three months, it could be that the implant is just trying to adjust. The first time I had the implant, after six months, I had no periods whatsoever. But definitely try getting a female GP and asking about tranexamic acid! That works wonders!

    I don't think GP's really understand how painful periods can be unless they're female, all the male GP's I've spoke to have been so... Passive about it. I'm also being checked for endometriosis and polycystic ovarian syndrome since both are in my family, so that could also be a possibility. Just try and rule out as many as possible. It's a nightmare, but once the results come back, it'll be easier to manage and handle! It definitely needs to be taken a lot more seriously, because for the likes of us, when we get our periods, it interferes with how I can do things. I've had periods more than plenty of times where I can't even walk because of the cramps and how light headed I've felt from bleeding! I've always thrown up when on my period, but when I don't it's like, "oh, a good one for once!" Haha. So, completely understand why you would be worried, love! Hope it gets sorted soon!

    If you wanna talk about it some more, feel free to message me or even add me on Discord etc. I'm always available for a chat or to even offer advice and help!
    March 21st, 2020 at 06:27pm
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    Also glad that you get how I feel about the coil. God it just freaks me the fuck out. Like I looked up the procedure for how it's put in and I just went, "uh nah. I'll stick with the implant." I can't even use tampons for crying out loud. lmfao
    March 21st, 2020 at 06:29pm
  • Unown

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    I really want a female GP to be honest, I've been meaning to see if I can register elsewhere because the GPs at my current practice have always mostly been male (I think there's one female GP there). I've never heard of tranexamic acids before, they sound great! I've had the same experience while talking to most male GPs about it, I think they feel just as awkward as I do and want the conversation to end.
    lmfao

    Good luck with the tests, I hope you can find out what's going on with you so you can get the best help out there! Physically throwing up due to periods really sounds awful and this makes me so confused as to why it isn't taken seriously! I'm sorry you have to go through that. While I haven't thrown up due to my periods, I do also get light-headed and double over in pain. I also go up in trouser size when I'm 'on', which makes me wonder what I've been eating to put on so much weight suddenly, but then the bleeding occurs and I realise it's just the severe bloating from that time of the month.
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    Same! That makes me feel much better to know I'm not alone in being unable to use tampons! I thought I was the only one because any other time I've mentioned problem bleeding (leaking through pads and towels and/or mattress protectors, or leaking after a swim somewhere public), other women just shrug it off with "use a tampon". I thought this much pain and bleeding was normal because it's so downplayed by many. If only there were some way we could accurately let others physically feel the level of pain we experience on cue, to help them understand just how serious it is.
    March 21st, 2020 at 09:11pm
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    Hi! Sorry to butt in over a week later, but I really do recommend the coil / IUD. I know the procedure is a bit scary but if you've ever been to a gyno and had to have a speculum fitted to check what's going on down there, that's the worst part. So if you can handle the uncomfortableness of a speculum, you'll be absolutely fine!
    Also, it made my periods super light and has made my sister's stop altogether.
    I'm so glad I broke up with Elly. I'm having some of the absolute best sex of my life right now! My new partners are absolutely phenomenal in bed. Every single time we get it on my legs are shaking so bad I can hardly stand up let alone walk anywhere afterwards.

    They are also so kink-friendly! (And kinky themselves.) We had a wonderful time fucking for something crazy like six hours the other week, while we were on a video call to my hopefully future girlfriend. There was flogging, bondage, strapping, strip teases, the whole shebang. And sex is just the cherry on top.
    April 2nd, 2020 at 03:03pm
  • VixL

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    It feels great just to be able to take your pants off and walk in nothing but a oversized t-shirt and underwear lmfao
    April 8th, 2020 at 04:16am
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    Hi! Sorry to butt in over a week later, but I really do recommend the coil / IUD. I know the procedure is a bit scary but if you've ever been to a gyno and had to have a speculum fitted to check what's going on down there, that's the worst part. So if you can handle the uncomfortableness of a speculum, you'll be absolutely fine!
    Also, it made my periods super light and has made my sister's stop altogether.
    Any input is appreciated, thank you! I'm seriously reconsidering it, just a little scary. I do need my periods to lighten up! However, I'll obviously need to wait unitl all this blows over, but I really think I may get it done once it's available to me. Lasts longer and seems to be more beneficial. I can do the speculum so, yeah, I should be alright! However, my implant will need to come out and I know that I'll need to wait a month in between or something I remember my doctor saying.

    Thank you, though!! Arms
    Oh my god. So, two nights ago, I couldn't sleep, neither could my partner. He just started like dry fucking me basically, and ended up just pulling my shorts down since I was already topless. He's been ill for the past 2-3 months, so we haven't had sex for that period of time, but my god.

    I was fucked. I got absolutely demolished and my god, it was so good. I missed having sex with him so much and the fact we're finally getting back to it just... Yes, thank you.
    April 10th, 2020 at 05:01pm
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    Hi randomly chiming in sorry, but I've had my IUD since May of 2019 and it's been...weird lmfao I mean the first few months my periods were super super light but came pretty regularly. Then I would get them like every two months. And now it's just all over the place. The only way I know it's coming is really bad cramps the week before. I'm considering taking it out and going back on the pill but I wanted to give it another chance cause it's been I believe 3 months since I had my period last. So either that was the last one forever or it's gonna come again randomly.

    Just letting you know my experience with it tehe
    April 13th, 2020 at 08:32pm
  • Sol.

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    All I wanted was one last round, bro. Why the fuck are you making this complicated??????
    April 15th, 2020 at 03:31am
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    Hi randomly chiming in sorry, but I've had my IUD since May of 2019 and it's been...weird lmfao I mean the first few months my periods were super super light but came pretty regularly. Then I would get them like every two months. And now it's just all over the place. The only way I know it's coming is really bad cramps the week before. I'm considering taking it out and going back on the pill but I wanted to give it another chance cause it's been I believe 3 months since I had my period last. So either that was the last one forever or it's gonna come again randomly.

    Just letting you know my experience with it tehe
    absolutely fine, like i said before, any input is welcome! my periods are already all over the place unfortunately, and i'm on the implant at the moment. i had no periods for two years the first time round, but now, my periods are just as they usually would be; irregular, painful, heavy and just vomit inducing. it's an absolute pain. like i said, i may give the coil a go and if it doesn't work out for me, i'll probably just head back onto the implant or even just stay off birth control for a while. although, i really, really don't want kids at all, so i think being on any birth control would be better than nothing.

    unfortunately can't be on the pill due to weight, but there's always something.

    thanks, though! it's good to see a variety of responses, because obviously every person reacts differently so! thank you Arms.
    i'm finally not bleeding and just in time, too. my partner has been so touchy feely today so, i think something may happen tonight when we go to bed.
    update: well last night was something else. we didn't have sex, but he used his hands and god, it's been a long while since i've came that hard and god, i was shaking. and i swear to god, making him moan is something else and it drives me absolutely insane. thank god it happened cause some tension has been relieved i'll tell you that.
    April 16th, 2020 at 04:16am
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    I had sex with this guy in australia back in February and now he keeps texting and he's like... Into me. And I like him he's cute but... He's in Straya and I live in England
    April 20th, 2020 at 04:46pm
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    I don't know if it's anxiety, stress, or a stomach bug, but I hate my stomach today. Please don't make me spend my entire day on the toilet. Cry
    April 21st, 2020 at 08:16pm
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    @ hengstin.
    Drink lots of water and remember to take deep, slow, exaggerated breaths if you are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety/stress. Hope you feel better soon! Arms
    April 22nd, 2020 at 07:12pm
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    Somehow, I have magically picked up "is a DM/GM" as a turn on. XD Which isn't bad, necessarily. But it was weird waking up from a dream where I was getting my ass eaten by the GM of one of my favourite D&D/Pathfinder podcasts. Honestly can't decide whether it means that I'm listening to too many podcasts, or that I should be listening to them more...
    April 23rd, 2020 at 01:58am