@ reezzy
Make sure you're with someone you trust and who trusts you. Depending on what you're into means you may require different things. For example, needing safe words (although I find saying "stop because x y z" works too) or safe gestures (for if someone is gagged - for example, clicking fingers).
Also make sure you and your partner are on the same page - have a few conversations before doing anything and test out different things before the Real Deal (for example, practicing a type of bondage on yourself, testing out sensation implements and making sure you each know what your "hard no", "maybe" and "hell yes" areas are).
Make sure you also practice safe sex (of course).
November 29th, 2015 at 01:09pm