I find this argument in favour of legalized prostitution extremely unsettling because
- dru in flight.:
- @ Psychotic Secrets
Maybe they're fat and ugly and no one wants to sleep with them. Maybe they have awkward personality skills or aren't very nice. But you're saying that if someone wants intimacy then they can just "go get it" but if they can't, then their options are rape or prostitution. Regardless of opinion of prostitution, I'm sure most people would prefer it to rape in that case.
a) it suggests men are somehow owed access to women's bodies simply by virtue of the fact that they exist, that they have the right to have sex whenever they want to regardless of the fact that women don't want to have sex with them, that blue balls is just unbearable and men just can't not have sex when they get horny (somehow this never happens to women, there are always willing sexual partners around us?)
b) it subtly recognizes that prostitution and rape are essentially the same experience, it's just that sex workers are 'unrapeable' because johns pay them off.
March 15th, 2013 at 09:46pm