@ consulting detective
You put everything into words perfectly and I don't even know how to write back a good response that'll sound so well-put together.
I agree with you, the circles which we both run in are definitely pointed towards which "type" of feminists we are — even though our type is a normal feminist. I have maybe one or two friends who are feminist and who share my ideals, but I'm not as open about it as I wish I was because of the bad labeling. If I could talk as freely in public as I could here, I'd be a completely different person than I am now.
I asked my mom if she was a feminist and what she thought about equal rights for men and women, and I was so ashamed when she said, "Women already have equal rights, don't they?" I found it so disheartening to have to inform my own mother of things going on in the world. It's not so much that I was ashamed
of her, just the world in general. It shouldn't be a common idea that we naturally have equal share and pay to men, because we just don't. And then my mom wondered how I was aware of some of these facts, and I couldn't tell her tumblr because she views tumblr as false information on all things. Yes, not everything you read on the internet is true, I'm aware, but my parents seem to think EVERYTHING on the internet is false.
I'm appreciative that more popular female artists nowadays are starting to spread an awareness of feminism. While I wasn't a fan of Beyonce's act at the VMA's simply because I don't like her more recent music, I was very pleased to see her showcase a huge feminist sign to over half the world, and even have the right mind to define what a
real feminist believes in. I think we're on our way to spreading awareness, even if it's taking slower than we'd like it to happen.