@ Kurtni
Ha, that's exactly how I imagine it going down lol.
And I don't envy you. It's bad enough my parents wouldn't be happy, but if I ever met a person who I wanted to settle down with, and have children with, I could just imagine how it awkward it would be, especially since christenings here are more a social thing/excuse for partying than religious. It's almost unacceptable not to do it, since we're a predominantly catholic country
It's tough trying to keep everybody happy, while sticking to your own beliefs (or lack thereof) at the same time. You just have to stick up for yourself, and don't back down. If you back down once, you'll be expected to back down again. They're your kids, not hers, and she'll have to learn to accept that.