- Matt Smith:
- That's a pointless argument to make, though. If people are against it then of course they aren't going to do it. The point of being against something like this is that they don't want other people to do it either. They want to take away the choice because they see the choice (in all but medically beneficial situations) as morally wrong.
Yeah, but people shouldn't want to take other people's right away just because they think it's "morally wrong". Just like there are some people that don't agree with gay marriage and they don't want homosexuals to get married, it's the same thing, in my opinion. It's someone's
choice and they shouldn't interfere. And no argument is a pointless one, by the way.
- Matt Smith:
- Still, for my part, if people are going to privately fund this themselves, then I don't think they should be stopped. Indeed, letting the properly sex-fixated people choose the sex of their own child could in many cases actually save lives. Think about it. These are the people, in China or wherever, who are already prepared to abandon/drown/smother female children at birth. Just let them pick a male embryo and the problem is solved, I'd rather they weren't killing an already existing baby. And if this results in a massive imbalance and there are no females left to breed with then they'll have to deal with their own stupid mess or watch their civilisation die out as a result.
The US actually has a slight gender preference towards females, having a ratio of 97:100. <- I'm quoting
Sheepy here.
I'm in the US, there is a slight gender preference, yes, but you've also got to consider that a lot of people won't choose their child's sex, so what are the odds of them having a girl rather than a boy or visa versa. Fifty fifty, right? (Assuming that they have no medical conditions.)
- Matt Smith:
- Or, in a less extreme case, it would be far better for the psychology of the child in question. Presuming this isn't a society like China, and if you're the sort of person who is so fixated with having a child of a specific sex, you're probably going to end up resenting your child if they don't match up to your sex expectations which would be damaging for them because they'd always be the less-than-ideal child or the child they didn't really want because they were supposed to be a different sex. Let's face it, I wouldn't want a child to feel unwanted either, which I think could happen if an individual is prepared to go to such invasive/extensive/expensive lengths to pick and choose sex.
I can't speak for anyone else except for myself, but if (or when, because I will) I choose the choose the sex of my baby, I'm not the type of person that would have any expectations for my baby as far as their life goes, example: if I picked to have a boy, it wouldn't matter to me if they turned out gay, it wouldn't matter to me if they weren't extremely athletic, or anything like that. Same thing if I picked a girl, the only thing I would be choosing is their sex (and if it's possible their eye/hair color, yes, I'm aware that's a "designer baby", but hey, it's my kid) I wouldn't be aiming to control their personality characteristics or life choices or anything of that sort...