I can honestly say that I've never seen that one before, and I love it to death! I should start using that.
- sahina the beatnik.:
- The heart is curved, so there's no reason that love should be straight.
May 19th, 2008 at 11:39pm
I can honestly say that I've never seen that one before, and I love it to death! I should start using that.
- sahina the beatnik.:
- The heart is curved, so there's no reason that love should be straight.
:arms:
- Screaming Photo Op.:
- I didn't technically come out to my family.
But my sister did take the liberty to tell my mum that I was talking to a girl I liked online. >.>
Did not end well.
My mum threatened to cut my hands off. My sister continued to tell my brother with a smile on her face as I cried in the corner. My brother made me delete my MySpace and LiveJournal (which I un-deleted after a few days), while telling me that slash was disgusting. My mum talked to me in the car that I shouldn't do that, or else people will think I'm gay.
And yet I've seen a picture where my sister was frenching some random chick. *shudders*
If it's not obvious, my family's kinda homophobic.
So. I've decied to not let them know until I'm 18.
I told my sister first and she started laughing. She informed me then she was lesbian. lol XP who knew? hahaha then I told my friends and they were like oh okay and we finished eating lunch. I told my father in simple words uhhh dad I think I might be bi. All he said was oh and i asked him not to hate me. He said he didn't and we had a nice long conversation. I learned I'm alot like my dad...I still haven't told my brother or my mother. My brother is an asshole so I don't wana hear a stupid comment yet and my mom isn't living with us at the moment so it's not quite possible to tell her yet but I don't want her to freak yet and I don't feel like being yelled at yet so I haven't told her. I think if I do tell her before i move in with her she'll want me to go back. if i do tell her and she starts to get smart with me I gonna come back and live with my dad. i don't wanna have to deal with her crap and her being a jerk!
- Syck:
- Have you come out to your family (if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual)? How did your family react? Did they accept your sexuality? Did they deny your sexuality? Do you think it is important to even come out to your family? Perhaps a sibling of yours came out, how did you react? Do you think it is morally wrong to not be straight? Or is it morally neutral?
Discuss your opinions here about sexuality and your experiences with coming out to your family.
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I came out to my parents about being bisexual a few months ago. My brother found out when he saw me with my girlfriend. Both my mother and brother are adamant Christians, and they are strongly against my sexuality but they don't harass me about it. My brother and I argue every once in a while about it, but nothing more than that. My father is more accepting of it, and tolerates my complaining when relationships don't go well, but for the most part my parents don't like it when I talk about relationships, so I try to keep it to a bare minimum.
I've heard so many horror stories about others who came out of their families. One of my friends was kicked out of the house because she told her father she was a lesbian. She is now living with her grandmother.