V For Virgin.

  • dr. faustus

    dr. faustus (1070)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    28
    Location:
    France
    I'm not ashamed to say it, yes I'm still a virgin and I don't mind being one and I'm a senior now, but I know that the world has changed and children (boys and girls) are losing it at a young age now. Why is that? Is it peer pressure? I know Mibba is pretty much made up of teenage girls, but still what do you guys think?
    June 23rd, 2008 at 08:48am
  • Chain Me Free

    Chain Me Free (130)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    25
    Location:
    United States
    Being a slut is what I think. 11 year olds losing their virginity is just sick. I plan not to lose mine until I am at least sixteen or older and it has to be with someone I love and trust. Guys want to marry virgins, but lose their virginity when they are younger, thats what I think.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 08:52am
  • Frankee

    Frankee (150)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    26
    Location:
    New Zealand
    I hate the fact that lots of people I know are going off having sex. I want to wait a while. :tehe:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:00am
  • nothing.

    nothing. (250)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    31
    Location:
    Morocco
    ^ Same :tehe:

    I have this friend. She's 14. And today she was rubbishing 2 of my other friends who are 17 and 18 for still being virgins. Apparently I have until August, and if I'm still a virgin when I'm 16, she's going to hate me :file:

    It's just a pity such a nice girl can be a total slut. :roll:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:31am
  • method acting.

    method acting. (155)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    27
    Location:
    Great Britain (UK)
    I'm still a virgin, and honestly people are still surprised by that. Which I find pretty offensive actually! I'm 16 and know 13 year olds that have done more stuff than I have. My friends actually say, teasingly and seriously, "Oh I bet because you're the little innocent one, you're hiding behind that and are actually a sexual goddess." Im like "No... really."

    It's not so much that I'm waiting for the right person, I'm waiting for the right moment. I mean I know I've found the right person now :tehe: It's just when we get the oppertunity to see each other. My friend shouted when I said I was going to Scotland in Summer, she said "Oh Emily's losing her virginity finally"

    It irritates me that it has to be everyone elses business. Then again I find myself gossiping about sex scandals amongst my peers :tehe:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:40am
  • Blue Demon

    Blue Demon (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    35
    Location:
    Great Britain (UK)
    Womabts. Is what I can say. I'm still a virgin <yes that bit over to the side is my actual age, and I know that I am not ready for sex of any kind yet. It's got nothing to do with what age you are, although to lose it at the age of 11 is rather sad. It's more if you are ready for it, mentally I mean. Some of these girls and boy's might never know what good sex is.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:44am
  • Last American Girl

    Last American Girl (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    30
    Location:
    New Zealand
    I was 15.
    But I had been with him for a year. And we stayed together for another 2 years.
    I think it depends on how long the relationship has been going on, not how old you are (Although I do think 11 is far too young)
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:52am
  • Spanish Lullaby

    Spanish Lullaby (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    25
    Location:
    United States
    My situation's a bit confusing. I consider myself a virgin, because I've never had consensual sex.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 04:43pm
  • michael.aleksander

    michael.aleksander (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    28
    Location:
    Great Britain (UK)
    Sex is human nature. I'm not ashamed for having lost my virginity, nor do I think that you should lose it whenever. I found someone who I had somewhat of a connection with. Men are horny and I'm gay. Horny man + horny man = sex'sgonnahappen,honey.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 04:47pm
  • FrancyPansy

    FrancyPansy (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    32
    Location:
    Austria
    Blue Demon:
    Womabts. Is what I can say. I'm still a virgin <yes that bit over to the side is my actual age, and I know that I am not ready for sex of any kind yet. It's got nothing to do with what age you are, although to lose it at the age of 11 is rather sad. It's more if you are ready for it, mentally I mean. Some of these girls and boy's might never know what good sex is.
    XD Amen do that ;)

    I think it is sad when young girls (boys) just loose their virginity because of peer pressure. One of my friends lost it with 16 (at a disco with a guy she didn't know) just because she was nearly turning 17 and had the feeling "I need to get over with it". That's a fucked up point of view.. to get over with it?

    I think sex should be with someone you respects and who respects you. Maybe it doesn't have to be love (whatever love might be) but in my opinon it has to be the right person. The one you would give your heard for.

    But hey, this world is changing so fast, as well as the lifestyle and when you thikn about it, it is a scary thought. Maybe it gets better int he next 20 years, but I think it gets worse.. all of this "I wanna be a grown up already" stuff. Soon we have 8 years old behaving like they are 16. :file:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 06:46pm
  • The Marty Parade

    The Marty Parade (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    26
    Location:
    Sweden
    I'm still a virgin and I'm not ashamed to say so.
    Though most of my friends are all like "I have to lose my virginity before I turn 16" which I don't get o_o
    I don't think age has anything to do with it...it's when you feel it's right.
    And I don't think it feels right when your 11-13 years old, that's just stupid.
    Oh and I also know people who lie about it saying "No I'm not a virgin" when really they are.
    I don't get why it's something to be ashamed of, something you have to lie about.
    Like who wants to be called a slut when they're 13? :*
    June 23rd, 2008 at 06:49pm
  • Famous Friend.

    Famous Friend. (105)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    28
    Location:
    United States
    I'm 17 and a proud virgin, I mean little 13 year olds dressing as I guess sluts, and having sex is just wrong, do they even know what can happen to them?
    I say they should take classes then decide what to do, seriously
    haha and I just laugh thinking a fourteen year old isn't a virgin and I am HAHA :D
    June 23rd, 2008 at 07:22pm
  • folie a dru.

    folie a dru. (1270)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    32
    Location:
    United States
    I think it's because everything is so sexualized and it doesn't seem like a "big deal" to do it anymore.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 08:17pm
  • melancholy.

    melancholy. (305)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    25
    Location:
    United States
    druscilla; a chance.:
    I think it's because everything is so sexualized and it doesn't seem like a "big deal" to do it anymore.
    ^ That's it exactly, I'm 13 and everyone in my school talks about sex, most have had it, but it's just like any other topic now. It's lost it's meaning and it's no big deal to anyone anymore.
    Thankfully I have enough sense. I'm still a virgin.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 08:24pm
  • cath 1.1

    cath 1.1 (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    28
    Location:
    Canada
    Well, for my part, I am sixteen and happy to read that some 17 veterans :] are still virgins just like me.
    Though it's hard socially now, I feel. At my school, everyone has had a couple of 'serious boyfriends' over the last year... And I just... Haven't had anything coming my way.

    So I guess it does not really mean anything, since a few of my friend regret their precocious (is this ever a word?) experiences.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 10:03pm
  • FrancyPansy

    FrancyPansy (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    32
    Location:
    Austria
    craig 1.1:
    Well, for my part, I am sixteen and happy to read that some 17 veterans :] are still virgins just like me.
    Though it's hard socially now, I feel. At my school, everyone has had a couple of 'serious boyfriends' over the last year... And I just... Haven't had anything coming my way.

    So I guess it does not really mean anything, since a few of my friend regret their precocious (is this ever a word?) experiences.
    =) Same happened to me. You don't get a boyfriend that easily..at least I don't. That's when I start to think I am a weird one.. because nowadays everyone has a boyfriend, even the 11 years old, so why not me?
    But maybe it is because I don't wanna start a relationship with just anyone, or with somebody I just like. I have to like like like him. I broke up (if you can say that) with a few crushes/dates because they liked me more than I liked them and I thought that's unfair.
    Some people do call me weirdo because of that and say "are you stupiod? You could have had a few boyfriends if you didnt screw them". But would it be worth it?

    Yeah some of my friends regret their early sex experiences as well, maybe because they did it with just "someone".
    June 23rd, 2008 at 10:07pm
  • fall-from-a-star

    fall-from-a-star (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    26
    Location:
    United Kingdom
    i lost mine when i was 14, i've just turned 15 recently.
    But it wasn't peer pressure or anything. i was ready for it.
    And i was in a stable relationship.
    We've been together nearly 9months.

    that doesn't make me a tart, or a slut, or any of the other things. "/
    we were both ready for it, we are still together now. i mean, i am not so naiive that i say: 'oh we are going to stay together forever blahblahblah' past relationships have taught me. But i really care fore him, he really cares for me. thats all that matters.

    i think people who give in to peer pressure will majorly regret it. You don't want just anyone, you want someone special.

    i think as long as you are ready for it emotionally then, you know...
    Although all the stories about 11 year olds. O________o thats bad.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 10:46pm
  • rictumsempra.

    rictumsempra. (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    24
    Location:
    United States
    I'm a virgin. I know I'm 12, but I think that more than half of the 8th grade at my school has had sex. This exbestfriend of mine, Sophia, has had sex. She's 12. She had sex when she was like 10 or 11. And she says she's a Christian. >.<

    See, I'm a Christian. I don't care if you're not. But I'm waiting until marriage. Not because I'm a Christian, but because it's what I would do even if I wasn't a Christian.

    It's just that why would you want to give your future husband an already opened gift, you know? Wouldn't you want your husband to have the treasure of your virginity? I really don't see how it's a treasure. But that's how my mother put it...
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:13pm
  • rictumsempra.

    rictumsempra. (100)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    24
    Location:
    United States
    And also. People are always like "I have to loose my virginity before I turn 16." or "I have to loose my virginity before I go to college."

    It's like...why does it matter? Don't you want it to be with someone who cares about you and who loves you? Why do you want it to just be a random fuck? Don't you want it to matter, to be something to remember forever? I don't understand it.

    And these 10, 11, 12, 13 year olds loosing their virginity? That's stupid. Find other ways to entertain yourself. Get a freaking hobby or something.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:21pm
  • fool's paradise

    fool's paradise (1000)

    :
    Member
    Gender:
    Age:
    25
    Location:
    United States
    Virgin.
    Guys don't even notice me, how am I even supposed to get a chance to be slut?
    Even if they did, I wouldn't go and sleep with them all.
    It's just not right.
    I like holding things on a pedestial. Sex being one of them.
    I'd probably wait till I'm out fo high school.
    June 23rd, 2008 at 11:50pm