V For Virgin.

I was 15 when I lost it, and I just turned 16. With my first boyfriend I almost lost it, but was too nervous about becoming pregnant, and I realized I wasn't ready. The second time, it was just one of those things that didn't happen. When it finally did though with this one kid, I knew I was ready, and I wasn't afraid. It wasn't peer pressure for me though. Then again, maybe it was, I mean with everyone getting laid like it's their day job. It's not like anyone had actually pressured me into doing it though. Maybe not though, since I'm still getting with the kid.
Yes, I said it. We're nothing more than a guy and girl who occasionally fck. He's twenty, and I'm sixteen. It's not like I don't have feelings for the kid though, and it's not like he's an asshole, he respects me and doesn't make me do anything I don't want to.

Proud virgin. Why shouldn't I be? It may seem like every guy out there wants to get in a girl's pants, but believe me, there are many guys out there who are willing to wait for girls like me. And that's what keeps me going. I know that somewhere out there a guy is waiting, just like me. And I'm going to find him.

I really don't think that it has anything to do with being pressured. I mean sometimes it does, but you can always say no. I think it's because teenagers just hear how good it is and they want it. Raging hormones, that's all.

17, virgin, and fine with that status. My three best friends have all had sex but I have many other (virgin) friends that plan to wait until marraige or a meaningful relationship.

I can honestly say that the only reason I'm still a virgin is because no guy would want to have sex with me.
If someone did, I'd go for it.

I don't want to waste my life looking for the perfect person. Truthfully, I can't even see myself ever getting married.

I told my mom I was ready for it. And she asked me "with who?" I said I didn't know and she replied "wrong answer," and walked off.

harlequin.:

Truthfully, I can't even see myself ever getting married.

I can't either, mostly because every marriage I've seen never lasts. Love never seems to last anymore. I don't want to go through that.

I'm still a virgin, and I'm fine with that. But if I had the chance to have sex, I don't know if my answer would be no. I don't see the big deal about virginity. So what if the love of your life doesn't get the chance to take it first? It doesn't make you a whore. What should be special is the first time having sex with that special someone, not letting him take your virginity. That's how I view it.

druscilla; and burn.:

I think it's because everything is so sexualized and it doesn't seem like a "big deal" to do it anymore.

Which really is sad.

I think people should do it whenever they feel ready [within obvious reason of course]

^ What's the obvious?
(I'm so dumb sometimes.)

I honestly don't judge people either way. If you're a virgin, that's cool. I'm not going to tease you for it or pressure you into having sex or anything. That's something you need to decide on your own, and I respect that. If you're not a virgin, that's fine, too. Yes, I do agree that 12 year olds having sex is a disturbing thought, but once you hit about the high school age, I don't see the problem with it. Just be careful, and know what the concequences are if you're not.

Riot.:

I don't see the big deal about virginity. So what if the love of your life doesn't get the chance to take it first? It doesn't make you a whore. What should be special is the first time having sex with that special someone, not letting him take your virginity. That's how I view it.

I agree. Just because you lose your virginity to someone doesn't mean that act of sex has to be any more special than the others you'll have throughout your life. For example, I'm the 3rd person my boyfriend's been with, and he's the 6th I've been with (woah, that does sound kind of bad, doesn't it? haha), but we've only had sex with each other for the last 7 1/2 months (since we basically started dating), and I'd consider the sex we have to be much more special than with the guy I lost my virginity to or any of the other guys I've been with, just because we're so close and love each other so much We just say all those other people were put into our lives so we could get the awkward bad sex out of the way and be amazing by the time we met each other :mrgreen:

I just dont like how sex and marriage anymore are treated like nothing or a trial run just to see how it goes. I guess I just always thought it should mean something.

I have this reputation for being a slut which I really have no clue where it comes from. I dont think anyone has even ever seen me kiss a guy because none of my boyfriends have ever really hung out much with my friends and Im not a fan of PDA. I think people in my area just like to get creative with making up thier own versions of my life lolz. I consider myself a virgin because the sex I had was not consentual.

I dont believe in marriage so I dont think you need to be married to have sex. But I do believe you need to be in a mature and stable relationship which is most likely not in high school, too many hormones flowing.

See, I personally told myself that I'm going to stay a virgin until I'm 16 at least. I'm technically not allowed by my parents to even date until I'm 16, so why should I have sex before then?

I've also decided that I'm not going to have sex until I have proper protection, and not just a condom, because if I got pregnant, my life would be ruined, no exaggeration.

I'm waiting for the right person. Not necessarily the one I'm going to marry, but one that I love, care about, and can trust.

I'm just not in a rush at all, especially since it's probably gonna hurt >.>

FrancyPansy:

Blue Demon:

Womabts. Is what I can say. I'm still a virgin <yes that bit over to the side is my actual age, and I know that I am not ready for sex of any kind yet. It's got nothing to do with what age you are, although to lose it at the age of 11 is rather sad. It's more if you are ready for it, mentally I mean. Some of these girls and boy's might never know what good sex is.

XD Amen do that ;)

I think it is sad when young girls (boys) just loose their virginity because of peer pressure. One of my friends lost it with 16 (at a disco with a guy she didn't know) just because she was nearly turning 17 and had the feeling "I need to get over with it". That's a fucked up point of view.. to get over with it?

I think sex should be with someone you respects and who respects you. Maybe it doesn't have to be love (whatever love might be) but in my opinon it has to be the right person. The one you would give your heard for.

But hey, this world is changing so fast, as well as the lifestyle and when you thikn about it, it is a scary thought. Maybe it gets better int he next 20 years, but I think it gets worse.. all of this "I wanna be a grown up already" stuff. Soon we have 8 years old behaving like they are 16. :file:

Since when is sex something you have to "Get over with"? What happened to it being this beautiful connection between two people who love eachother? Now its practically an olympic sport. I'm not saying you should necessarily wait til you're married, but wait til your in love and ready.

I have a friend who had two miscarriages before she was fourteen. Now she's got a whole bunch of problems.

Plus there's the girls I hear talking at school, "Seriously, if I don't get some tonight..." These girls are fourteen and fifteen years old. What the hell?

I'm proud to say that I'm a Virgin.

I'm still a virgin.
And I know a lot of people that aren't.
Most of them aren't whores.
Most being the keyword.
:shifty

But either late last year or earlier this school year, we were on the bus having a conversation about whether I was a virgin or not.
It was two of my guy friends and it was pretty funny, to be quite honest.
One thought I was still a virgin, while the other thought I wasn't because of the things I talk/talked about.
:lmfao

I am still which I thought would be kinda obvious but after reading some of these posts..Not so much.

I honestly can't see until marriage because I think it's unrealistic in this day and age unless you meet 'the one' early on. And I'm not saying that because I'm anxious (actually I'm kinda dreading it ). I personally am going to wait after marriage myself.

I think it's best if you're in a relationship were the two love each other, and if you're both ready for it in all sense of the word "ready". And out of high school because there is a lot of the "Oh we'll be together forever and ever, and ever" crap that never seems to be true.
But that's just me and then again I've known people getting 'married' in the fourth grade, then break up soon after.

Before I started homeschooling I was in sixth grade (so we were both around thirteen). A girl I've known but not close to asked me at one point who was my first date with. I told her I had never dated before. Then she said, "So are you a virgin then?". I must've looked at her like she said she ate straws for a living and said of course.
1: If I haven't had a date, then why wouldn't I be a virgin??
And 2: Did she see the guys at that school? They weren't nice and aren't lookers.
Now going on to ninth grade, I wonder what has happened to her since then.

I'm definitely still a virgin, and I will be till I get married or engaged. I haven't even kissed a boy yet or have had a boyfriend, but I hope to end that in the next year or so. Right now, as one of my friends say, 'save the V', is what I'm going to live by.

Of course, I haven't lost mine and I don't plan to until I meet the right person and know it's the right person.

I'm still a virgin, and I'm proud of it. people don't beleive when i tell them, coz i'm really open about the whole topic. i mean, i had a competition with my friend to see how many people we could have serious convosations about sex with. that was fun. but then, loads of my friends have a go at me, even though they are virgins too, saying that coz i'm open about it, i should have sex! I really don't get that.
i'm gonna wait til i'm ready, not when peolpe tell me i am!

Lonna Lullaby.:

I told my mom I was ready for it. And she asked me "with who?" I said I didn't know and she replied "wrong answer," and walked off.

Your mom is a wise woman.
I, too, am a virgin. I don't plan on changing that anytime soon.