- demolition lover;:
It can still be bashing if you don't name anyone. Basically there's an expectation, on discussion boards, that you accord others respect. Anyone on the thread would be capable of taking offence at an open statement like that, so in one sense it's worse than if you had named a person.
I definitely wasn't targeting your age or experience, and a lot of your comments accord with what I was saying about lack of education and the role that educational institutions can play in remedying that, and, then, the issues stemming from the poor education. The exemption religious schools get on various discrimination and curriculum points I find really troubling - I think a parent might choose to send their child to a school where they learn a certain set of values, but if an important part of education is to have an understanding of sex beyond "don't, it's bad" then being religious should not excuse schools from that responsibility.
At the same time, that's surely also a failure on the part of parents, unwilling to talk to their kids and give them the facts. I know if (when) I have children, I'm going to make sure, once they know about this stuff, that they know about
safety; I'd prefer a child who has some informed curiosity, than one off blundering about with no idea, endangering themselves and others. It seems extremely naive to have teenagers and think they don't know about it, and extremely reckless to assume they have a thorough, healthy, balanced understanding gleaned from, what - friends? porn? television/films? their single-sex religious school? Hm.