I'm
convinced that my parents were out to get me when they chose a name for me, because I can't seem to catch a break either way
My first name is Jana, and I went by that name up until I was in about seventh or eighth grade, and it was
such a hassle for me because
no one could pronounce it properly
Everyone wanted to call me "Jay-nah" like "Dana," when it's really "Jan-ah" like Hannah, and it didn't help that there was another girl a few grades over me who spelled her name the same way but used the opposite pronunciation.
I started going primarily by my middle name, which is Kandi, before I started high school. Fortunately, it's not difficult to pronounce and it's the name I associate more with myself, but having what's considered to be a stripper or porn star name has its own different set of challenges, especially since I apparently have the "sluttier" spelling of it
"Jana" is from an 80s cartoon called
Jana of the Jungle, and "Kandi" was my mother's little sister's name, and then my last name happens to be the same as a global fast food chain, so I got a lot of the jokes growing up asking me if I was the daughter of a certain red-headed, burger-peddlin' clown. Can't catch a break
There are still some relatives and childhood friends that will use the double name "Jana Kandi" on me, and I'll answer to all three, but for the most part, the people closest to me either call me "K" or "Kandi."