May 27th, 2014 at 12:47am
@ Indigo Umbrella
You must be proud of her! Of course you had a part to play in that. And everybody learns differently, and sometimes teacher and the school system forget that. They'd prefer to leave someone behind to struggle, than take the time to figure out if the problem is with their method. And nothing below 96%? That's incredible. I was more of an average student for the most part, except for when I was able to be more creative. I think my best subject in college was literature. In school History and English were my best. God, I miss learning history. My little bro will ask my questions, and I realise I've forgotten what I've learned. It's so depressing. Like,if I could, I'd be an eternal student. I wish I could be in college forever.
Yeah, some people just make you lose faith in humanity. It's hard to get over an aversion to people though. The way I see it, I like individuals, but I hate people. They're just so...mean. Some are lovely, but it only takes one person to ruin your day. I wish I could just work from home and never have to deal with people. It would be so wonderful. Criticism can be tough to take, especially depending on what it is that's being criticised. Some people can be unintentionally personal, even if they're being nice.
One day you won't have to rely on your family. It's a shame you have to miss out on opportunities because they're unwilling to help.
I would put it down to you just being a good person. Good people always see wrong, and know not to go down the same path. You're obviously strong, and you didn't let them drag you down. You should praise yourself for that- not many people could say the same thing in similar circumstances. As for your son, I wouldn't be so worried. With you as his main influence, and the person he looks up to, he'll learn how to be a good human being.
I really hope to see a blog from you soon saying you've moved away. I can only imagine how free you'd feel without the pressure from your family.
And no need to thank me. I love the story, and I believe on commenting on stories that I read and love. Thank you for writing it my dear!
That's what I'm majoring in. English: Language and Literature. Though I haven't gotten to those classes yet. I'm on Personal Finance right now and I hate it. I miss History too actually. But to be honest I think I've learned more about history outside of school than I did when I was there. But the last time I took a history class was in high school and we already discussed how that didn't work out. I would love to be a forever student. I decided if I ever get rich and make a lot of money I'll continue to go to school. Maybe I'll get my doctorate. Study astrophysics just for the hell of it.
Yeah, I try not to hide as much as I do. And it's exactly as you said. I love individuals but I hate people. I'd just like to start from the bottom and build my own family. I can work on me and my son and then maybe find someone later who I can start fresh with. In any kind of relationship setting. Not necessarily romantic. Just like a friend. I've never had a best friend. At least not one that lasted.
It just upsets me because I'm 27 and I don't know how to do anything on my own and it makes me feel like a complete failure. I know I should have been more responsible with my life regardless of what my family did to kick me back down. It was still my job to do something with myself and I haven't done it yet. :/
Aw, thank you. ^.^ I hope so. I can already see my dad's behavior influencing him. Especially with the way he talks to me and treats me. He has no respect for me as his mother because he recognizes my dad as the authority figure and not me. He has more respect for men than he does for women. All my dad has to do is say something sucks or it's gross and my son is 100% against it. Like this kid used to always eat his veggies and potatoes and stuff. And then one day he overheard my dad saying he didn't eat vegetables and now my son won't touch them. My dad says something is too "girly" and my son won't touch it. My dad calls him "girly" and he cries. He's already trying to teach him that girls are inferior and worthy of ridicule just for being girls. He picks on him constantly and I can't do anything about it without getting yelled at. The last time I stood up for him I got kicked out and had to come back and apologize just so we didn't have to sleep at the park. I just... ugh. I want to protect my son.
God, I hope! My husband already said he'd help me get my own place but there's no way I can do that yet without having a car and stuff. So it still just depends on whenever my dad feels like fixing up that loft apartment for me. He hasn't even started yet.
^.^