Loving_Gently / Comments

thank you.

Scenario I think of right away is at school.... The "cool kids" one of them thinks --Stupid kids in their dark cloths and hair hiding their face they all must be stupid cutters--- (predjuice)

Same one says as one of the "cutter kids" walks by --- Hey you stupid emo going to go cry and make your self bleed because the world is just so horrible you wanna die? Stupid your all the same how lame you want to die-- (discrimination)

Kid looks at him like WTF and walks away (he is not a cutter)

Some of the cool kids friends have now started to form prejudice thoughts against people with dark cloths and that style hair because of their friends discriminatory actions.

((something like that lol))

lies lol if you weren't then you wouldn't have a mibba....

But I say that it starts with having prejudice thoughts towards something which can lead to action any kind even verbal which is discriminatory so that's how prejudice reinforces discrimination. But

That in turn reinforces prejudiced because it can influence people around witnessing discriminatory action to form prejudice ideas thus continuing the cycle.

Of course I could try and help with the paper.

I already have a prime example... Prejudice my dad thinks most times a bad driver will more often than not end up being a girl. But he doesn't take action on it or believe wemon shouldn't be allowed to drive.

Thats just an example I came up with let me know specifics lol =] hope i can help a bit

Sure I'll do my best what's up =]

cool to meet you Kelsie What's up?

Good! Just uploaded some more pics.
you?

hello;

Hello there. You seem very interesting. (:
I'm Heather by the way.

Hey
Uh nothing much, you? xD

thanks for the poem comment
I am Lauryn

it's cool things take time

just know the more time you take the smaller the window of opportunity grows. Dont be afraid to take risks for with out taking a chance you ll never know if you will succeed. And with out failure you can never improve.

letters can always be a start me personally I don't sound half as good in words as I do in writing because idk why lol I write as fast as I talk but some how when I write my feelings and ideas are more complete.

Perhaps e mail or text him.

yeaaah *sweat drop* I'm a blabber mouth lol

Well there always stepping in to his life but keeping one hand on the door. Or caging your heart although some people can't do that for some reason =/ you should over all sincerely talk to him and tell him how its going to be if you stay and everything turns out cool, or if you stay and everything turns out bad. Tell him to be honest

I know that's probably a hard decision for you but personally think it would be healthier for you to just go through with being with him.

He may not be here for much longer and you don't want to have the possibility of wondering "what if" or you don't want to one day feel burden of knowing you left him in his darkest hour, unless it truly means that much to you to smite him.

If you have to don't think it on a personal individual to you level just take it in form his perspective. Ask him if he would want you there, if he would accept you in and keep you there. Its never good to kick somebody when they are down. You don't have to love him or be close to him, just treat him like a human.

I can relate to this only through my grandfather, who has never ever been in my life or my fathers life. He didn't even know that my dad had a daughter. He has been in prison pretty much all of his life for gang reasons, and has reached out to me and my father just recently.

Now he has no one, he is in jail, and alone, he doesn't understand the younger generation of criminals, and his mother died recently and all his other children and siblings have abandoned him. For my dad it was hard at first and he was angry, he let my grandfather know all his hurt and angry feelings that have built over the years, and at first didn't plan on staying in touch with him for any other reason than to try and understand his reason for not being there.

But now we all write to him frequently, no matter what he did, the fact remains that he is utterly alone. And there is some gratification in knowing that your the only person that can bring him happiness, or make him feel special. He is getting out in like 2 years and sure it might be an emotional risk to get to know him if he just abandons us when he is out. But you have to ask your self what is it that your putting on the line? Is it worth it? And think what you will get back in knowing you where there even if it doesn't work out. Or does even the slightest chance of it working out in the end make it worth it to try?

It all boils down to you and how you feel, everyone and their moms can offer advice but only you know whats best for you.

Well.... I don't do well with like, vomit and other body fluids. I'd pass out, throw up or run out of the room. My mom makes fun of me.

No problem I'm here if you need anything. Someone to rant to or just someone to bug when your bored lol =]

lol. I have thankfully never been in the hospital for a long period of time. I have been to the ER twice. My mom works there, so I've visited her there and her co-workers. I would make a lousy nurse. lol More power to you.

That works too.

Hospitals, I know what you mean. They aren't my favorite place in the world.

Basically, whatever you feel comfortable using. Playdough is awesome too. Looking back, I wish I had kept a journal. I think I would have been less destructive.

There are going to be days when you feel craptastic and you hate the world and everyone in it. What people don't realize, I don't think, is that the patient's family suffers as much as the person who has cancer.

Message me or leave me a comment if you need to talk, have any questions or concerns. :)