What’s the difference between your partner calling you, “beautiful,” and, “hot?” Respect. It can be tempting though, to settle for just being “hot.” It’s the exciting feeling of being wanted by somebody. It’s the feeling of being attractive to somebody. However, it’s easy to be taken advantage of and not get the treatment you deserve by feeling “hot.” But, please, hold out. Please don’t get taken advantage of. Don’t get a reputation. Would you take pride in being The Whore? Hopefully, you thought no. Hold out, and you, too, can be “Beautiful.” Trust me, you won’t be Forever Alone for not putting out. If you have a feeling your partner will leave you if you don’t put out, that person doesn’t deserve you. I know you hear that all the time, but it’s true. If you feel like sex is all your partner cares about, and you don’t feel that way, it’s an unhealthy relationship. I know it’s not easy to just give everything up like that, but I can guarantee you are more than “hot.” I bet you all the money in the world, because that’s just how sure I am, that you are beautiful. Let that beautiful out.