My A.L.L. Process Theory. A-attraction, L-like, L-Love. Men and women (all) go by my theory. First you get attracted to someone then you go into the A.O.L. phase. A-attraction, O-or, L-like. This were you are getting to know each other for an example messaging (aol.com). Then after you get into the like stage Then you get into the L.O.L phase, L-like, O-or, L-love. This is were you are comfortable...