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I hope you weren't weirded out by my flood of random comments.

And you are quite welcome. I love your poetry! You write poems really well.

Hey! Our story Underestimate me is continuing in the sequel called; Conquer me.. Please check it out!

You're welcome.

@ oh bear
No problem

And speaking of haircuts I need one too

But I'm goooooood. I go back to university the 28th but I haven't started shopping yet not a single teacher has sent a syllabus either or told us what books to buy so right now I'm just like KAAAAAAAY

Dude yes

omg it's awkward because I have a classmate in university who looks exactly like the dude in the gif except with a scruffier beard. HAHAHAHAHA

ALSO I CAN'T BELIEVE I FORGOT TO SAY THIS BUT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE COMMENT ON DEER BOY ILYSM

I'M GOOD I am in desperate need of a haircut though whoops these split ends just keep splitting
What's up w you boo

@ oh bear
If you died and came back to life, does this mean you're Jesus?

Gif of me when I saw you commented:


HI EL I'M DOMI I'M GOOD HOW ARE YOU?

omg hi I feel like I died and came back to life
HI MY NAME IS EL HOW ARE YOU

@ oh bear
The entire argument was wild from start to finish. He doesn't treat anyone well and whenever people call him out on it he gets super defensive (which is human nature so I get it) but instead of sitting down with the person and talking about it, he just drops them as a friend. We can't exactly drop each other because we're in the same group of friends so it affects everyone else and it's just so slkhkldgklngkldfngklfdngg. And he wanted to talk about it in person but then refused to make plans to meet in person. So he was just trying to avoid the entire conversation.

I also admitted that I liked him because it came up somewhere in the conversation and he's like, "I'm not dumb. I always knew you liked me." But just two days before he texted Carissa freaking out and asked if I like him. So bullshit he knew

His number is still blocked and Carissa has him on "do not disturb".

ALSO THE GIRL WHO LIVED ACROSS THE HALL FROM ME WAS FROM SHANGHAI!! That's so cool you get to go to college outside of your home country. In England too

Enough about all this J stuff. How was your visit in *waves flag obnoxiously* MUUUURRICA!!!

OK TO ANSWER YOUR LAST COMMENT:
Home is between Shanghai and this like seaside resort town in England where I go to uni.

ONTO UR NEWEST COMMENT:
omg that's so rude that he told your friend she should calm you down like ALSO HOLY SHIT I have a housemate who keeps leading me in roundabout conversations like that so I get your frustration omg

LOL Carissa's sass tho

omg that is SO WILD but like not in a good way. Just based on what I've read he doesn't seem to be treating you as well as you've treated him. Also he sounds so unreasonable omfg

@ oh bear
You were traveling and didn't have a laptop so you're good

Girl, I don't even know where to start so I'll just give you the highlights. I called him out on his attitude, told him why I was mad, and then explained to him how he is when he's high and that nobody wants to be around him. Then he told Carissa she needs to calm me down and Carissa said, "lol no because I'm with her and she has her own feelings that I'm not controlling."

So he got mad because of the "presentation" of what I said and told Carissa, "tbh this right here makes me not want to be friends anymore." So Carissa called him out and said, "After one argument you're just going to drop her instead of trying to understand why she's angry?" He kept bothering her about it until finally Carissa said, "I'm done cleaning up your messes so you're on your own."

So he talks to me, tell me my presentation sucks, I told him the only reason it sucks is because he didn't like what I had to say, then I said he complained I wasn't communicating all week and now that I am he hates it. He brought up middle school, I voiced my opinion, and he replied with, "Why are you bringing up middle school when we're in college?" And I'm like ?!?!?!? You brought it up?!?!?!

SO THEN there were excuses being flown around (on both our parts to be honest) and finally I got tired of it and I told him, "I didn't want to ever bring this up because you're just going to make this out to be my fault and you did. Just like I predicted." And to try to explain what I mean I brought up something he did in January that I haven't forgiven him before and he dodged it real quick. He said, "Well I believe what wasn't said in the past should be left unspoken. You're just trying to seek sympathy" and I'm thinking BOOOOOOOOOY

So blah blah blah. More words being thrown at each other. Finally I told him to leave me the fuck alone because he just wasn't getting it. He said, "Well I think maybe we shouldn't be friends." And I said, "After all I've done for you you're willing to do this?" And he said, "Well not willing but" and I'm like "boy no this is why you're losing friends." Then I told him to leave me alone again, he wouldn't and kept saying his drugs aren't addictive and getaway drugs (even though he literally just told me and Carissa he was addicted and he uses to escape reality), so after telling him to fix himself I blocked his number because I got tired of trying to defend myself.

Then he sent Carissa a snapchat of the friend he was with and said, "I LOOOOVE hanging out with my best friend" to which Carissa replied "You hated her two weeks ago". Then yesterday morning he sent her, "When your done with everyone's bullshit." And Carissa said, "Whose? Your own?"

So in the end I'm the bad guy and he wants to drop me as a friend. I'm "rude" and a "smartass" because I finally voiced my opinion and he didn't like it. He also told Carissa, "I'm not going to sit here and let her get away with it".

At one point he even asked, "Could you be a doll and tell me these 'insults'?" So I did because I have receipts And I ended that text with, "Am I being a 'doll' enough for you?"

And he got so fed up that at one point he said, "You're sounding like my mom right now!" and I cannot tell you how hard I laughed.

This all started because we were supposed to go out Friday but I'm tired of him smoking so I asked if he was otherwise I wasn't going to go. He said "that's fine" and I asked if he meant that he won't smoke or he doesn't care that I'm not going. So he said, "I mean I think it's none of your business what I do but I'm not going to." So I told him even if it's none of my business I'll give my damn input anyway. Like sorry I'm trying to look out for you because you're slowly killing your lungs and you said you want to try other drugs But whatever. According to him there's a difference between "being concerned" and "being a smartass" and Carissa was like, "Well I don't know what you're reading but I don't see a smartass here." Thank you, Carissa.

So I guess when he gets in trouble or gets sick because of all these drugs I shouldn't help when he asks because "it's none of [my] business".

OH MY GOD I'M SO SORRY I HAVE NO EXCUSE (or a laptop either) OMG TELL ME MORE

@ oh bear
UPDATE ON THE DUDE J

I JUST GOT INTO A MAJOR ARGUMENT WITH HIM OMG

@ oh bear
Welp now I took a while to respond

I think I'll use puta instead of puttana because it sounds more fun to say

I would love to go to NYC omg have fun! Where is home? I saw on your profile cuz I was creepin that Antarctica isn't your home. Lol i figured this because Antarctica (let's live there anyway) but I'm curious.

My friend Carissa (I mentioned her in the blog) and I ranted about J today and I got a lot of anger off my chest. But I think I still kinda wanna pull a Hermione Granger on him and punch him

SORRY GIRLFRIEND! I was travelling (Houston to NYC, and then tomorrow I'm going from NYC to Beijing, and then from Beijing home, which is always exciting )

!!!! I actually knew cazzo and stronzo, I think. The rest is new and I'm totally sneaking it into my vocabulary. I wish I knew more in Spanish! Actually no, I just thought of how there's puta which is the same as puttana.

STILL gonna get that $$$

HAHAHAH I just reread it and I meant to write "reading" instead of "writing", but the writing point still stands, so

@ oh bear
Girl I gotchu.

Merda = shit (hella similar to Spanish)
Cazzo = fuck
Che (pronounced like spanish's "que") cazzo = what the fuck
Cagna = bitch
Puttana = bitch/whore
Stronzo = turd but Italians use it for asshole and to call you a piece of shit
Ci cago = the shit I eat (for some reason because the literal translation is la merda Che mangio)
Pigro/pigra = pig, Italians use it to call you lazy

And just for kicks: racchia (rahk-key-ah) means ratchet.

And devil horns in Italy is what they stick out the window if you're a bad driver but it means "your husband/wife is cheating on you". Like wut

Also, thank you! It all depends on the amount of questions so I'll shall be swimming in probs $20 lulz money soon enough!

Dat. Pun. Just because of that pun, I hope it's the best kindle anyone has ever had.

I think it must be! They do, omg, although I will admit that they caught on pretty quick to that one.

Oh bless. I love learning about dialects and SWEAR WORDS, YES, TEACH ME PLEASE! I'll trade you a few Spanish ones although I'm sure they must be quite similar. We have mierda which means "shit", and joder (emphasis on the "der" bit) which means "fuck", and ay la leche which does mean "the milk", but it actually means "damn it"

Thank you!! All the comments I'm getting + research I'm doing is basically telling me to get a Kindle, so I can rekindle my writing. I used to be such an avid reader, although since going to uni, not so much. (P.S. congrats on GETTING SOME DOUGH depending on how many trivia questions you get submitted? not sure)

@ oh bear
I guess the middle finger is universal then Teacheds always have to ruin the fun

Lol yeah that's "fuck you". My grandma says "fangoots" because of her dialect and it's the funniest thing I can always teach you other swear words because I'm a bad influence

Also, I just saw your blog about the Kindle. I have the first generation one and I can say although I hardly use it (it's dead for months at a time whoops) it comes in handy for the books I don't think I'll like. I would recommend it just because of that.

Not at all! I was so weirded out by it bc I grew up in like a hybrid Western Eastern culture. I'm like 99% sure it's not true because my mum has flipped the bird to many a shitty driver, and one time this incredibly unreasonable driver gave her the middle finger (unpromptedly). HAHAHAHAHAHHA. omg we learnt Japanese and Korean swear words until our teachers caught on and they made us stop.

HAHAHAHA omg bless you for surviving that!! I believe it's spelt vaffanculo? Not sure. I don't want to be distasteful bc I remember my German friend really pissed off my Italian friend by repeating it and his (Italian friend's) last name.

@ oh bear
Oh dear, can you imagine if someone pointed like that in the States? it's a horrible image really But I remember that rumor. We all thought it was the funniest thing back in 1st and 2nd grade so if we were mad at someone and didn't want to be caught raising the middle finger, we raised our pinkie, thinking our parents and teachers had no idea what it meant. We would jokingly do it too Along with saying "fudge you".

I had interviews with teachers too. Scariest thing ever because they just stare into your soul. But now I have to ask, which swear word is it?

Oh, it was a recording? That's so interesting. Mine was an interview with my actual Spanish teacher, which was TERRIFYING. That is actually so cool @ the "eh" thing. TMYK! I know one swear word in Italian and I'm sure it's the same one that everyone else knows

I'm actually not sure, BUT there's this rumour that people liked to spread in middle school that "in China, the middle finger is the pinky finger". Not sure if it's true or not. OH, BUT one thing that always weirded me out a bit was they point with their middle fingers, so if they're pointing in a direction it'll be with their middle finger, and some people press elevator buttons with their middle finger too.