June 29th, 2010 at 12:46pm
Yay, because I love my story too. I do, I do.
And d'you know - I added everyone from the party on Facebook and I added Jordan, and he accepted. And he wrote on my wall, and he said he never got a chance to get my number, which at midnight last night, my friend Phoebe and I decided that meant he wanted it. Otherwise he wouldn't have mentioned it. So, I gave it to him.
And yes, I would like to see him again. But I'm still going to wait. He needs to text me first, and give me his interest first because otherwise I get clingy and I get attached and I scare the living daylights out of boys when I get like that. Jordan practically wet himself once when a drunken girl said "I love you" to him. He's skitzy, bless him. So, I want to be cool. And if we do be a couple, we'd be a cool couple. Who don't write gooey love notes on Facebook and we don't go overboard with the public displays of affection. We'd be friends.
'Cos sometimes gooey is good. I just can't see it working with Jordan and me.
Oh, baby. What you text him was beautiful. And even after everything, deep down I think Josh is a nice guy. And we all have our problems on the outside and sometimes other people just get them a lot worse. But he realises things and he gets deeper than any other boy I have heard of, and he uses the word 'love'.
Please see him next week. Have you seen him since you broke up? I want you to see how it goes, and what it means. It can speak volumes - meeting face to face. And then tell me, because I don't care how much you talk about yourself because I like hearing about yourself. And I talk about myself just as much. So we're even, 'cos we share the same soul.
But I was also talking to one of the guys I met at that night we left school the other afternoon. He wasn't drunk the night I met him, so he reminded me of all the crazy things I said and my god, I felt really slutty. Like, overboard with the whole I-want-a-kiss thing, and I started to regret it all. But Jack (this guy) was cool, and he said I was young and drunk and that's just the normal thing to do, and his opinion of me hasn't changed because I was clearly not the only one doing it that night.
But with Jordan, I wasn't all over him right from the start. In fact, I rarely spoke to him at all at first and when he found out that I thought he was cute, I avoided him even more, and waited for him to come to me - waiting skeptically too; I was convinced nothing would happen at all. But he did. He came and he stayed the whole night. And that was the first proper kiss I have had in a year and it was beautiful. So I think I might change my attitude this summer. It's prom on Friday, and I still have that 'deal' with that guy, but I don't care too much if it doesn't work out. I guess I found out that you find things when you stop looking.
Plus, mine and Jordan's play fighting gave me a bruise, which I found hilarious, so I made it my status. His status was on Saturday, "Good night last night :) McDonalds at 7 was lush :)" - and this was before we were Facebook friends, so before he knew I would see it. A lot of people commented on the "good night" remark, but what do you expect? They're 17 year old guys who actually haven't had much action or many girlfriends. They thrive off gossip like this, bless them.
I love you so much, soul mate.
Jordan text me, and he invited me out to the pontoon with the crowd from the party. I went there, and nothing happened. In fact, we rarely talked at all. More so because everybody was making jokes about the fact that we got on each other, which in turn, made it totally awkward.
But walking back, we walked through the woods in our huge group, and he was walking with me for a lot of it, and we were talking about random stuff that passing people came and joined in with and so yeah, that was cool.
Then we got to the park, and all the boys started playing football. And their other friend, Matt, was waiting in the car park to take Georgie and Steph to McDonald's in his car. So, we talked to him for a bit and d'you know what? You know the beautiful guy I wouldn't let go of when I was drunk on my last day of school? Matt's his brother. And they are very alike. But Matt's more, I don't know, he seems to listen to you more. And he's not the performing arts type - whereas Sam is, which means his ego is not as big. As we know arty guys always have big egos *COUGH COUGH COOTIES BOY*.
But then everyone started to leave and I walked most of the way home with Jordan and his friend, Stu. And they both had bikes but Jordan walked his on the pavement next to me and it was really flirty. And we talked and play-argued again and had a laugh and it was really nice, but we got to the end of my road and he cycled off with a "see ya".
But not a second later, Georgie rang me. And she told me she was in McDonald's and Matt was in the toilets and she told me all the things he'd said about me. Apparently, he thought I was 'pretty hot', and he 'couldn't believe someone like Jordan could pull someone as gorgeous as me'. And she Georgie insisted on hooking us up, so I agreed, for the hell of it - because I knew nothing was going to happen with Jordan.
She gave me Matt's number at 11pm, because he had asked her to. I text him, and we didn't stop texting until 2am. And oh god, he's the sweetest. And he told me that he thought I looked gorgeous, and he asked me why I didn't have a boyfriend, and gave me a pet name in every text and he's doing English at college because he loves stories and poems. I text him half an hour ago (it's now 11.44am) and he told me he's writing a poem. And he asked if I'm free tonight because he wants to see me. And wow, I just, god, wow.
I told Georgie that my walk home with Jordan was still really flirty and she said that Jordan's still not the girlfriend-type of guy. And Matt said the same about him. But I just, I need to see Matt just as much as I've seen Jordan so far so I can properly like, compare, y'know. But somehow I think I'm going to prefer Matt.
I had to tell you that, because I haven't told anyone yet and it's fighting off my chest and I knew you had to be the first one because I can be so honest with you. 'Cos we're soulmates and all.
I hope everything is good with you!
I LOVE YOU.