What is Love?

IS LOVE having someone tear your hopes apart
or
having someone hoping you aren't torn inside

IS LOVE having someone who has your back
or
having somone stab you in the back

IS LOVE having someone make you feel like crap
or
having someone fuck up those who made you feel that way

IS LOVE having someone always be there by your side no matter what
or
having someone leave you when life is fucked up

What is Love?

I've seen both sides of "love"
so does that mean i'm loved or my life is just fucked up?