Is this?

I sit here wondering what might've been,
wondering why things happen the way they do,
and why so often they hurt the people areound you and the ones you love,
Everybody including me, always says that everything happens for a reason.
But has anybody thought to stop and think of what that reason might be?
And why these things actually were meant to happen?
the impact it had on your life and the way it made you feel?
but maybe those things that happen are just things to help us get stronger, to show us that yeah we might not always get what we want but that doesnt mean its the end of the world.
Even if it ends up making you feel hurt, or you regret doing something....... It happened for a reason whether you like it or not,.....
and so many of us have figured that out the hard way..........