who is "he"?

i have a friend
who meets my needs
that no other would understand
in fact my friend is so close
i hold him here in my hand
he is strong,
secure
unspoken and sure,
forgiving,
understanding,
reliable and pure.
his body type: shiny
his head at a point
he always brings me comfort
he could never disapoint
my friend keeps my secrets
he never says a word
this is why i trust my friend,
because i myself am insecure