The Baby Wait

The makers of MTV's notortious 16 and Pregnant and Teen Mom are back again with a brand new show, this time focusing the spotlight solely on adoption. Adoption is no stranger to Teen Mom makers Liz Gately and Tony DiSanto, seeing as their very own 'teen' stars Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra were one of the teen parents who decided to give their daughter Carly up for adoption. Liz and Tony have since chosen to team up with Logo on their newest series' creation. Logo's The Baby Wait depicts couples wanting to adopt a child, and their routine meetings with the potential birth mother of the child. Taping their encounters all the way up until the actual birth of baby, we then are a given a closer look at how the adoption works before and after baby is born. However, this is where The Baby Wait would present it's twist to the whole process.

In certain states (particularly Connecticut) a birth mother is allowed 30 days to decide if she would like to finalize the adoption or keep her baby. This is where the show would document the main event, which is whether or not the birth mother will choose to take her child back or continue to let the couple raise the child. The crucial decision is anxiously awaited by the couple as it switches back and forth between them and the birth mother, both parties at a loss of what to do at having to wait for the final word. The show demonstrates how painful the process can be on both sides, particularly the mother, as she tries to make the best choice. Watching the process happen as a viewer, it's hard not to get emotional as you watch all this unfold. You might even become anxious yourself at one point on what the mother choose.

Although the series is set to actually start on October 30th, Logo was kind enough to air the first episode, which has been streamed on their site online as well. In the first episode we are introduced to Genavieve Diggs, who plans to give her baby daughter Morgan up to a gay couple Mark and Paul, whom are very interested in becoming parents. Genavieve of course doesn't come from the best home enviroment, with a rocky relationship with her parents and no longer in school or in touch with the baby's biological father, her parents are naturally more inclined for Genavieve to go through with the adoption. Genavieve is then faced with the dilemma on whether keeping her daughter, or giving her up to people she knows would provide her daughter a good life. Although she is certain on adoption before giving birth, you can then see how seeing her baby in actual form slowly alters her decision, making it even more difficult. The episode is very raw and emotional to the point where you don't know who you're rooting for. Even if the birth mother's situation is not ideal to raise a child, you are still sympathetic to the fact that the love for her child is clearly evident, as well as the couple who are desperately wanting the child as well.

That's what makes me believe The Baby Wait might actually turn out to be a great show, because it dives deeper into an already sensitive issue. Seeing that connection with both parties is rather extraordinary and unlike something I've seen before on shows like these, even with Teen Mom. The Baby Wait is much more realistic and vulnerable, leaving the viewers to connect with the stories on the show on a whole new level. Although intitially the show would primarily focus on gay couples only, Gately and DiSanto elected to allowing a more broader audience, giving everyone the chance to tune in. Something I'm personally glad for, because it allowed me to view it myself and I have to say I was pleased with what I saw. In a video interview about the show, Gately likes to describe The Baby Wait to be "an evolution of a modern family."

I don't watch too many television shows, but perhaps I will keep my eyes peeled for this new series. I think it has great potential and I'm sure a lot of people, couples who have adopted or went through with adoption, can relate to the characters more intimately than others. Even if viewers have not been through the process, they are bound to connect with the characters still in some way. I definitely recommend giving the show a shot by watching on TV or online where you can decide for yourself if this show is to your liking.

The rest of the series is set to debut Tuesday, October 30th at 1o p.m EST on the Logo channel.



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