@ Death The Angel self-ness 1. The quality or state of being self-centered, selfishness. 2. Individuality, selfhood. The word selfness is right hun. No worries, it's okay.
I love how true it is that Love can overshadow Friendship and they can greatly contrast one another even though most people assume Love and Friendship go hand in hand. I also saw that you said Selfness again instead of Selfishness. Sorry if it seems like I'm being rude or attacking you, I'm truly not.
Ah sorry! Dx