How to Be Sexy Without Being a Slut

Every girl wants to be sexy inside and out, but few want to be considered sluts! Being sexy is achieved not only by wearing the right clothes and make up, but also by having an attitude that fits your style and is appropriate. Let me give you a few tips on how to look and be sexy without being considered the big ugly ‘S’ word.

Don't Show Too Much Skin

It doesn't matter how you feel about Kim Kardashian, truth be told, she looks classy in her picture. Like her, you have to find clothes that fit your body and accentuate the best features, without showing off the goods. If you have nice breasts, you don't need to nearly show your nipples for people to notice them. If you love your waist, you don't have to be wearing a tiny tank top that shows all of your skin. You need to find balance between showing some skin and keeping your goods to yourself, like Kim. In her picture, you can tell she has a fantastic body, but she's not showing a lot of skin. Always remember the golden rule: you can never show both boobies and legs at the same time.

Treat Yourself Right

Taking care of your image doesn't mean spending a lot of money. Eat right, exercise a little, don't bite your nails, don't go out smelling like you haven't seen the shower in two weeks, take care of your hair, and use a moisturizing cream after you take a bath. Do all the basics. You don't have to look like a celebrity, but you don’t want to look like a bum, either. Find the balance between "Hollywood star on the red carpet" and "I don't care about my look!"

The Way You Act

Of course everyone is different and, while some girls are super flirty and they will easily talk to strangers, others are shy and more mysterious. I'm not going to tell you to be mysterious or outgoing. Be yourself, but there's some things you need to remember.

1. Don’t act desperate. Acting like you need attention from the opposite sex will turn guys off.
2. At a party or bar, you don't need to drink too much to be considered cool. Have a glass of something you like, but enjoy it rather than drink just to get drunk. Drunken girls aren't sexy. Neither are drunken guys, for that matter.
3. Know your limits. There's a fine line between being flirty and fun and hitting on a guy like you want to take him home.

Nice Conversation

If you want to meet a guy that you can hang out with and not have everything be about sex 24/7, you have to keep him interested without having cleavage. The way you present yourself will dictate what kind of attention you get. So, for a guy to like you beyond the boobies and the butt, you need to know how to keep a conversation going. Talk about your interests, your dreams, or your favorite bands. Listen as he rants about Manchester United or Real Madrid and, if you're not much of a soccer fan, you can ask him about it. Not being afraid to admit your ignorance in a given topic is actually pretty awesome. It means you don't have to outsmart anyone and you're also interested in things outside your comfort zone.

Things to Remember

You don't have to be skinny, tall, blonde and tanned to be beautiful. If you want to find a decent guy, be a decent girl. Real men don't like girls who show off their bodies and act like wild cats. Real men like a woman who can be sexy without being almost naked, and who they can actually have a deep conversation with.

You can improve your looks and your attitude without turning into someone else. Listen to constructive criticism and take other people's opinions about clothes they think would look good on you or what kind of make-up would flatter your face. You can learn from people, instead of thinking they have no business telling you what you could do to improve yourself, and never try too hard to be sexy. Just go with the flow!

Good luck!