5 Tips for Bullying

I'm sure we're all familiar with bullying; some of us have had it hard, and some of us have gotten lucky. But, there are some people who are frustrated and don't know what to do when it comes to bullying and teasing.

Don't care what they think.

I understand that it's easier said than done, but once you really believe it, it really helps and makes you realize how dumb their opinions are. When everyone else's opinions are influenced by the bully's, then that's where you get tough, and that's where you start.

This is your life. You are living your own life, and it doesn't matter what other people think--especially when you are a young teenager. Now, that changes, though, as you get older; what you are known for, or what most people think of you, can make other people--important people (such as possible future employers, jurors, etc.)--think of you the same way, since the opinion is so common.

But, it still doesn't matter what other people think. Sure, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it's an opinion. Even the people that agree with the bullies may be lying; they may just want to fit in, or not risk the chance of being outcasted.

Create and learn comebacks.

Although it takes learning, it's not too hard to say witty comebacks to the bully in certain situations. Even responses to your comeback (meaning, responses that state about the actual comeback specifically) can be outwitted with another great comeback, until the bullies, well...they don't really know what to say anymore.

Now, I have to be honest--ones that are old aren't going to freshen up as soon as the situation pops up. Such as this one:

"You're a nerd."

"I know you are, but what am I?"

That's one that bullies can give a comeback easily to, and their comeback usually seems smarter than the one you previously said.

Just think of things that could surprise them, and maybe even their 'posse'.

You might just have to ignore them.

Ignoring the bullies can be embarrassing for them. If they shout an insult at you, and lots of people are slightly grinning and looking for your reaction, just ignore them. The bully will be embarrassed because you didn't do anything to show that you actually heard what they said.

Make sure to put on a face that doesn't show that you heard, but you're trying to ignore the insult--just simply act like you didn't hear what the bully said. It will eventually lead to the bully being embarrassed.

If the bully grabs your shoulder and says, "Hey, I'm talkin' to you!", look over at them with an expression of startled surprise. If you keep ignoring the bully, then everyone else will know that you hear it, but you're just afraid, or whatever the reason is.

Don't fight back.

If the bully tries to engage you in a fight of fists, just back off. I know some people might think you're scared, but just ask yourself this: If any of them were up there in your place, what would they have done? I can guarantee they would have probably done the same thing: They either probably told a nearby teacher, or just walked away.

If you fight back, you could get into big trouble. It could result in suspension, and, if it was a very, very bad and bloody fight, then maybe even the possibility of you being expelled. Sure, people would admire your courage and your confidence, but would you rather have that short-lived victory, or walk away and report to a teacher what happened?

Don't cry.

If you cry, you might be classified as a coward from people that don't even like the bully. You can let out all the tears at home, or in a private place, but if you do it in public, where people can see you, then I promise you--it won't end up well.

I hope these five tips helped you, and may you never get bullied again.

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