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katie1994
Writer's Block
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 16 | May 10th, 2008 at 09:21am Okay well to start off yes I'm bisexual and my parents have been devorced since I was two...See two years ago at a party when i was 11 I ended kissing both my best friends Danni(girl) and Jorden(boy) and liked it both...therefore figuring out im bi. ANYWAYS!
I'm also exteremly scared because my mom is more understand though I have a shitty relation ship with my whole family and my dad says he has gay and bi friends but He yelled at my for using rechargeable batteries and asking for new shoes because my old ones were so worn they had holes in the bottom...See my delema?! I'm scared to tell any part o of my family!
This friday will be my four month anniversary with my girlfriend Ruth, but she lives in Ireland so my parnets don't know...nor do they know I'm bi, but I wanna finally tell them! I told my mom I was bi-currious yet she didn't get it and my Dad thinks Ruth and me are just friends because we'll be in a video call and we'll be LOVE YOU! I just don't know what to do...help? and I Really love my girlfriend may I say, she's the only thing that keeps me happy all day...so what do i do? |
axelofsoceity
Writer's Block
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Posts: 14 | May 10th, 2008 at 10:24am I wish I could help, but I sadly have not came out as of yet either... |
Judith; Miss Murder.
Fanfic Fanatic
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 1160 | May 10th, 2008 at 10:59am Maybe write a letter? |
The Way
breathe me in
Age: 11
Gender: Male
Posts: 14017 | May 10th, 2008 at 11:34am Sit them down and make sure they're calmed down before you say it?  |
michael.aleksander
Amateur Author
Age: 16
Gender: Male
Posts: 138 | May 10th, 2008 at 07:42pm You're only 13; don't tell them yet!
Statistically, a lot of women are bisexual.
I would wait a few years before telling your parents you are bi.
I'm 16 and still haven't come out to my dad... |
Mark Cohen
Fanfic Fanatic
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 2225 | May 10th, 2008 at 07:51pm TheKinkyShrink:You're only 13; don't tell them yet!
Statistically, a lot of women are bisexual.
I would wait a few years before telling your parents you are bi.
I'm 16 and still haven't come out to my dad...
Do what she says.
Just....wait. You're young, don't worry about it.
Yet. |
Standing Ovation
Cliché Catastrophe
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 375 | May 10th, 2008 at 08:02pm I came out to my mom this past February after 4years of knowing I was bi. You can do what I did.
I called my mom while my sister and her were out shopping and told her that when she gets home I seriously need to talk to her. When she got home she was scared because I don't really tell her I need to talk to her. My sister was in the room when she said whats wrong. I told her to send my sister to her room because it was to personal  . My mom got even more scared and well after 15minues of me beating around the bush I and her becoming insanely paranoid I said, "Mom, I'm Bi."
She was cool with it and now she jokes around with me about being bi. 
Or you could do this thing my friend did. She wrote her parents a letter and put i in the mail sending it to her house and well they found out that way.
Hope I was of some help to you. If you wanna talk feel free to pm or leave a comment.
Best of Luck
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skank.
Editor
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 9939 | May 10th, 2008 at 08:06pm
Bisexuality is a confusing thing.
Usually by the time people hit adulthood they either decide they are straight or gay.
That's why there are far more bi teenagers than there are adults.
I would wait for a few years before telling your parents,
because you may find you change your mind.
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michael.aleksander
Amateur Author
Age: 16
Gender: Male
Posts: 138 | May 10th, 2008 at 08:50pm The Phantom.:TheKinkyShrink:You're only 13; don't tell them yet!
Statistically, a lot of women are bisexual.
I would wait a few years before telling your parents you are bi.
I'm 16 and still haven't come out to my dad...
Do what she says.
Just....wait. You're young, don't worry about it.
Yet.
I'm male!!
It says so on my section and in my picture. ¬.¬ |
Mark Cohen
Fanfic Fanatic
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 2225 | May 11th, 2008 at 01:41am TheKinkyShrink:The Phantom.:TheKinkyShrink:You're only 13; don't tell them yet!
Statistically, a lot of women are bisexual.
I would wait a few years before telling your parents you are bi.
I'm 16 and still haven't come out to my dad...
Do what she says.
Just....wait. You're young, don't worry about it.
Yet.
I'm male!!
It says so on my section and in my picture. ¬.¬
Gosh, I'm so sorry!
I meant to put 'do what he says'.
Yeah, I feel stupid now. >.<[/spam] |
above the influence
Student Shakespeare
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 7434 | May 11th, 2008 at 07:23am
Yes. Gender confusion is somehow a phase in most teenagers.
I'd say wait until you are 16, like what Micheal said.
You're still young and a bit confused.
Just wait and you'll find out what you are.
BUT...
If you're really sure that you're bi.
Then, go ahead and tell your parents.
Make sure they're calm and respect you while you talk.
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Scars.
Cliché Catastrophe
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Posts: 713 | May 11th, 2008 at 11:10pm You're just thirteen.
Wait a few years, because right now they'll think you're curious.
 I just don't want you to go through what I went. I was twelve at the time, I had found out I was 'bisexual' and such, and I told my mom. And she didn't believe me.
Now that I'm nineteen, I'm a fully fledged lesbian.
....
Yeaaah.
Good luck.
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Jinxeh
Jackielicious!
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Posts: 453 | May 12th, 2008 at 09:40am TheKinkyShrink:You're only 13; don't tell them yet!
Statistically, a lot of women are bisexual.
I would wait a few years before telling your parents you are bi.
I'm 16 and still haven't come out to my dad...
This.
Heck, I've known I like girls since I was younger than you, but I didn't tell my mom about it until this past Halloween. I still haven't told my father. And my age over there is correct; I'm twenty years old. You're young. Give it time, figure things out, make sure of things. That could take a while.
Scars., I went through the exact same thing. I assumed I was bi for the longest time, before figuring out I didn't like men at all. I tried to make myself like men for the longest time, too, but it just didn't work.
It was interesting, coming out to my mom, though. I was upset and nervous, when I sat her down for it. She was so afraid I was about to tell her I was pregnant, when I told her that I liked girls she was so relieved she didn't even care about the gay thing. XD |
Black and White
Grammar Guru
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Posts: 4227 | May 12th, 2008 at 09:46am I'm thinking that by kissing two people in one night, a boy and a girl how do you know that you're bi? When you were 11?
I think that you are still young and that you should just forget about it for a few years, at least don't tell your parents. |
Jinxeh
Jackielicious!
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Posts: 453 | May 12th, 2008 at 10:32am Secks Me!  :I'm thinking that by kissing two people in one night, a boy and a girl how do you know that you're bi? When you were 11?
I think that you are still young and that you should just forget about it for a few years, at least don't tell your parents.
This too.
It did strike me as odd, that you decided you were bi after kissing a girl once. And the girlfriend you have now doesn't even live anywhere by you; there's an emotional connection, but not a physical one. Britney Spears and Madonna kissed once, on stage, and they seemed to enjoy it. Does that mean they're bi? No, not really.
Wait until you're older before comitting yourself to this. You'll be glad you waited, I promise you that. |
Black and White
Grammar Guru
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Posts: 4227 | May 12th, 2008 at 10:50am Good Madonna and Britney analogy. ^^
I did think it was pretty odd that you could just decide in one night. |
Jinxeh
Jackielicious!
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Posts: 453 | May 12th, 2008 at 11:51am Secks Me! :Good Madonna and Britney analogy. ^^
I did think it was pretty odd that you could just decide in one night.
It was the first that came to mind, for some reason. 
Yeah, and to the original poster...are you sure you just don't like kissing? That might not have had anything to do with one of them being a girl... |
chester.
-chester-
Age: 17
Gender: Female
Posts: 17627 | May 12th, 2008 at 01:16pm I agree with everyone else.
Just leave it for a bit, I mean it's not like you are that close with your parents (from what you said) so they can wait.
I have been with my current gf for almost 11 months and haven't told my parents. |
feliz flea
Grammar Guru
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Posts: 6111 | May 12th, 2008 at 05:12pm I told my mom a couple months back that I'm bi
I forget how, I just remember crying and telling her
At first she was all ~understanding
But now she gets mad whenever I wanna hang out with my gay friends
I regret telling her
My sister on the other hand, we've been telling each other more lately
But when I told her she said ew and didn't think I was serious
So I just told her I was just messing around
And I just left it at that |
the celestial teapot
Fanfic Fanatic
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Posts: 1058 | May 13th, 2008 at 02:25pm fleaBAG:My sister on the other hand, we've been telling each other more lately
But when I told her she said ew and didn't think I was serious
So I just told her I was just messing around
And I just left it at that
Ouch. That would suck. |
