I'm bi now...

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DamagedBeyondRepair
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July 6th, 2008 at 09:32pm
I'm the same way Bye

i don't really believe in sexuality

if u think about it "love" is more about the person than they're gender right

i say that hopefully ill find someone special and i don't care if it s a guy or a girl

u should do the same

that way your parents will think your more open and wont think "its just a phase, shell get over it"

i still haven't told my parents that but i don't plan on it for a while

mainly because i don't have anyone

hope this helps Mr. Green
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July 7th, 2008 at 06:35pm
I don't intend to tell my family at all. It's not their business what I am.
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July 7th, 2008 at 07:33pm
I'm having the same problem EXCEPT

My father, who has kicked me out repeatedly ( shows how much he cares), has said to my face that he thinks Bisexual people are just ugly.

I cried when I heard that, and so I decided no to tell him until I could stand over him, look down at him, and just come out and tell him I've been bisexual since I was eleven.

I think he may remember that on my eleventh birthday he yelled at me for kissing my sister.
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July 7th, 2008 at 07:39pm
Dani California:
I don't intend to tell my family at all. It's not their business what I am.


That is a great way to get over this issue, but if you have a family that has strong opinion on the topic of sexuality, you can't keep it from them for long.

If you think someone could, how?
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July 12th, 2008 at 11:53pm
Just wait a few years.
Like most people said, your still young.
You may change your mind later on.
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July 13th, 2008 at 12:11am
ehm... Sure, but if you're really sure,. then...
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July 13th, 2008 at 02:35pm
I wish I could help you. I've been thinking about my sexuality for years, and recently came out as bi to my close friends. I'm too scared to tell my parents. I don't know what they would say, but I know they wouldn't like it...
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July 14th, 2008 at 04:18am
Just be very sure before.

If you're halfway through sitting them down, don't back out.
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July 15th, 2008 at 09:11am
My friend says she's bi, she recently turned thirteen and I know this is harsh, but I don't fully believe her. And she wants to tell her parents and shes already told her little sister. And I think you should be totally sure.
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July 16th, 2008 at 03:09am
^^ Indeed.
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July 16th, 2008 at 03:58pm
evan black.:
My friend says she's bi, she recently turned thirteen and I know this is harsh, but I don't fully believe her. And she wants to tell her parents and shes already told her little sister. And I think you should be totally sure.


Why don't you believe her?
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July 16th, 2008 at 05:55pm
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evan black.:
My friend says she's bi, she recently turned thirteen and I know this is harsh, but I don't fully believe her. And she wants to tell her parents and shes already told her little sister. And I think you should be totally sure.


Why don't you believe her?
Because she's thirteen.

I don't take seriously the sexuality revelations of anyone that age.
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July 20th, 2008 at 03:45pm
I would get facts together and do a presentation thing (parents fall head over heels for that stuff) IF you want to tell them, though it might just be a phase, since you are only thirteen and all. I would wait and see for sure if you have a prefense to guys or girls, though my best friend was a lesbian in second grade, and is now fourteen and bi.
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August 9th, 2008 at 03:18am
You're pretty young, and you're probably just starting to produce hormones and all that stuff. So you might start having weird romantic feelings for random people. Wait a couple of years and then figure out if you're bisexual.

I mean, you were only 11 when you kissed both sexes. That's a pretty young age to start declaring your sexuality. Shifty
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August 9th, 2008 at 03:21am
Billissa Kaulitz.:
I'm having the same problem EXCEPT

My father, who has kicked me out repeatedly ( shows how much he cares), has said to my face that he thinks Bisexual people are just ugly.

I cried when I heard that, and so I decided no to tell him until I could stand over him, look down at him, and just come out and tell him I've been bisexual since I was eleven.

I think he may remember that on my eleventh birthday he yelled at me for kissing my sister.


maybe he thought you were being incestual(sp?)? Shifty
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August 12th, 2008 at 07:12pm
You're still young, you may not actually be bisexual.
I would say you're more bi-curious.
Plus, if you told your parents just now, I don't really think you would be ready if they took a bad reaction.
I told them I was pansexual when fifteen going on sixteen, my mum was okay. My dad, wasn't.
So, I knew it was understandable. Just wait a couple of years. Shifty
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August 12th, 2008 at 07:28pm
How'd you figure out you were bi when you were... eleven years old? Just curious. It seems strange. When I was ten and eleven, I kissed girls, too. I'm not even sure you CAN feel anything sexual at eleven. lolz Anyway, I'd approach your parents with the "friend" method. "Well, I have this friend and she's decided she's bi. However, her parents are a bit misunderstanding. What should she do?" See how they react to that and move on from there. (x
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August 14th, 2008 at 12:35pm
disco disco.:
Billissa Kaulitz.:
I'm having the same problem EXCEPT

My father, who has kicked me out repeatedly ( shows how much he cares), has said to my face that he thinks Bisexual people are just ugly.

I cried when I heard that, and so I decided no to tell him until I could stand over him, look down at him, and just come out and tell him I've been bisexual since I was eleven.

I think he may remember that on my eleventh birthday he yelled at me for kissing my sister.


maybe he thought you were being incestual(sp?)? Shifty

...It was her mouth, like how I kissed my mum! It's a natural kiss, it wasn't like I was shoving my tongue down her mouth!
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August 14th, 2008 at 12:36pm
skrillex.:
You're still young, you may not actually be bisexual.
I would say you're more bi-curious.
Plus, if you told your parents just now, I don't really think you would be ready if they took a bad reaction.
I told them I was pansexual when fifteen going on sixteen, my mum was okay. My dad, wasn't.
So, I knew it was understandable. Just wait a couple of years. Shifty

If you're referring to me, I was kicked out years ago. I'm bisexual on my own.

jules.:
How'd you figure out you were bi when you were... eleven years old? Just curious. It seems strange. When I was ten and eleven, I kissed girls, too. I'm not even sure you CAN feel anything sexual at eleven. lolz Anyway, I'd approach your parents with the "friend" method. "Well, I have this friend and she's decided she's bi. However, her parents are a bit misunderstanding. What should she do?" See how they react to that and move on from there. (x

If you're referring to me, I had testosterone (Both genders have testosterone) in my system then, according to my doctor and my size.

And I've already been kicked out. Now I'm just waiting for my fateful courtcase in which I may tell the court that I'm bi because they ask you, and see his face. That's my only contact with my dad anyway.
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August 15th, 2008 at 04:18pm
Billissa Kaulitz.:

If you're referring to me, I was kicked out years ago. I'm bisexual on my own.


Why would I be referring to you?
I'm referring to the person that started the topic.