I'm bi now...

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Mortiferous
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August 16th, 2008 at 01:39pm
skrillex.:
Billissa Kaulitz.:

If you're referring to me, I was kicked out years ago. I'm bisexual on my own.


Why would I be referring to you?
I'm referring to the person that started the topic.


Because this isn't the first page and you didn't direct it to anyone in particular. Plus, I said if.
Skrillex.
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August 16th, 2008 at 05:24pm
Blut.:
skrillex.:
Billissa Kaulitz.:

If you're referring to me, I was kicked out years ago. I'm bisexual on my own.


Why would I be referring to you?
I'm referring to the person that started the topic.


Because this isn't the first page and you didn't direct it to anyone in particular. Plus, I said if.


I know you said if, but I was just asking why you thought I would've.
Fair enough anyways.
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August 30th, 2008 at 05:06pm
Electric Puzzycat:
Synyster Gates:
evan black.:
My friend says she's bi, she recently turned thirteen and I know this is harsh, but I don't fully believe her. And she wants to tell her parents and shes already told her little sister. And I think you should be totally sure.


Why don't you believe her?
Because she's thirteen.

I don't take seriously the sexuality revelations of anyone that age.


That's a stupid reason, not to be rude.
But, honestly, age plays no part in these sort of matters.
I've known I was bi with a preference to girls since I was fourteen!
And I know that I am, cause I know from experience just how great being with other females can be, and I've known that since I was fourteen.
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August 30th, 2008 at 11:21pm
Synyster Gates:
Electric Puzzycat:
Because she's thirteen.

I don't take seriously the sexuality revelations of anyone that age.


That's a stupid reason, not to be rude.
But, honestly, age plays no part in these sort of matters.
I've known I was bi with a preference to girls since I was fourteen!
And I know that I am, cause I know from experience just how great being with other females can be, and I've known that since I was fourteen.


I'm sorry but I have to agree with Electric Puzzycat.
Thirteen is young. Shifty
And the body is going through hormones and all that shit like puberty.
So, at thirteen, you would be more bi-curious than certainly bi.
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September 18th, 2008 at 10:57pm
This is probably no help, but I've never understood why people come out to their parents. It's no buisness of theirs who you sleep with. Just saying Shifty
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September 23rd, 2008 at 08:42pm
I can't tell my mum I'm bi cause she'll tell me to grow up and give me a lecture on how bisexuality isn't natural! You can see why I no longer like her, I still love her, I just don't like her. I know I'm not part of any of the convos but I havn't really told anyone, except of course the people I've kissed! But I don't get homophobia! I live in England, and whenever someone is out of order, or do anything wrong, people call them gay, and say stuff like 'oh my god your gay!'. It's real wrong to say things like that. But what makes it worse, is that even one of my close friends do it. She doesn't really see the effect of it, to Brits it's just a figure of speech, and I think that's totally uncalled for! It sucks! And I'm afraid I'm gonna have to move countries to be able to really be myself...
Sorry for life story! Haha
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September 27th, 2008 at 10:10pm
Like it has been stated many times before, you seem way too young to come out to your parents.
And truth be told, being a teenager -- like myself -- we tend to change our minds easily.
A lot of teenagers experiment with their sexuality.
Experiment but not commit for a lot of them.
NOT ALL, but some.
zackman0813
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September 29th, 2008 at 03:58pm
Well I didn't just decide that I was bi all in one night. Maybe before you tell your parents you should really think. I told my foster parents last year and they love me nonetheless.
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October 12th, 2008 at 02:51am
I had pretty much the same...my parents had just separated but I told them at different times. They both were fine with it. I suggest tell whoever you think won't freak about least. That's what I did but both didn't freak. Just be truthful and really explain how much you love your girlfriend. They'll understand and if they do freak in the end they'll be fine because you're their child and they still love you.
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October 20th, 2008 at 06:54am
marionette.:
Like it has been stated many times before, you seem way too young to come out to your parents.
And truth be told, being a teenager -- like myself -- we tend to change our minds easily.
A lot of teenagers experiment with their sexuality.
Experiment but not commit for a lot of them.
NOT ALL, but some.


I agree. Just wait. Have some fun. But don't comit to anything just yet.
In the past 2 years, ive changed my mind about my sexuality like a million times.
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October 29th, 2008 at 11:56am
When they're in a good enough mood, tell them you've got feelings for another girl, and see what they say, if the reaction is good, maybe a couple days later tell them about Ruth, if not, leave the news of you liking a girl to sink in first.

I haven't told my mum i'm bi yet either, and I'm in love with this amazing girl, but she doesn't know
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November 29th, 2008 at 05:17am
I have sort of the same problem. I have no idea if I'm a bi-sexual, though I sometimes have fantasies where I kiss some girl I know.
*blushes*
But yeah, I would tell my parents straight up when I got the courage. I know my dad would probably be understanding, maybe my mom, too.
But yeah, I would wait a few years before telling them so they won't go into a "You're too young to know for sure." or "It's just a phase." speech.
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November 29th, 2008 at 05:17am
I have sort of the same problem. I have no idea if I'm a bi-sexual, though I sometimes have fantasies where I kiss some girl I know.
*blushes*
But yeah, I would tell my parents straight up when I got the courage. I know my dad would probably be understanding, maybe my mom, too.
But yeah, I would wait a few years before telling them so they won't go into a "You're too young to know for sure." or "It's just a phase." speech.
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November 29th, 2008 at 12:33pm
I don't really have an opinion about my own.

I think about guys, girls and aliens for god's sake but I can't be bothered doing anything about it.