Fathers

Blut:

^My mother's boyfriends are usually never able to replace my old dad. And they know it...

There was one step-dad I liked...

It turned out he was a druggie

aww...

....poor you Mel.
I hope you're okay though.
Well, you turned out right, so yeah

My dads the opposite to most of you guys' he's less abusive and violent and junk when he's drunk but he does loose his temper more easily. My mum has threatened to throw him out a million and one times before but he never goes in the end.

I think the worst thing he's ever done is mock my mum about my brother being dead. He was supposed to go, but instead he made us all stay upstairs of he would you know, hit us. And he just watched TV down there. Never left. And still he's here now. I can't do anything about it, my mum doesn't want him to go, i think that she thinks she can't cope with me and my 4 sisters alone. And we all know where that would lead. I've threatened to call the police on him numerous times, he thinks I'm stupid and asks me what i would report him for. simple

Child abuse

I know he's not allowed to do what he does, but he keeps telling me he is. I know he's not

I love my daddy, but he can be a bit rude sometimes. I started crying because he kept asking me if I was anorexic and I found it very insulting. I eat but when I am stressed I don't. I don't see him much though, only every other weekend because my parents are divorced. I love my step-dad too but can't bring myself to call him my father. He can be a bit stubborn. I love them both.

My dad's wonderful. ^__^ I mean, he's really like a typical dad in movies, lets me get away with stuff, tells pathetic jokes, is teddy bear like.

The only issue I have with him is that he never complains, and I worry about him a lot, because I'm afraid he'll overwork himself.

I'm ready to freaking stab mine right now.
Mum aswell.
On second thoughts, I'm going to start a mothers thread.
Because their just as bad.

My mum left my dad, you know?
Weird, its usually the fathers that leave.
-shrugs-
edit;


Damn, there already is one.

I barely get to see my father 4 months out of the year at diffrent times! He lives in the states working while my mother, me and my brothers are in another country trying to learn our heratiage. I miss him but when he does visit it's like i'm in the company of a complete stranger. He still thinks i'm a little girl so i made a statment the last time he came. I dressed like a mature adult and wore make up. It shocked him he started to treat me like an adult so we kind of talk better now!

I have a weird thing with my dad. He used to be horrible to me, and my brother (Who isn't even his son) it was rare that he would get physical but he would shout consantly. If you did the tinyest thing, like spill something, he'd go insane. He was in the army for 17 years so he's very vocal and doesn't seem to be in touch with his emotions (im not saying that about every army-dad, mine's just like that).

Since about the age of 9 i've really hated mine and he knows it, i've told him when my famile have those massive arguments that start about like going to the video shop or something. He's left a few times, mainly around my birthday and christmas because people always seem to fight then in my family.

My mum was going to divorce him, and for about 3 years all we would do is talk about how he annoyed us. And now he's ... different. He's still pushy and has to know everything that goes on in 'his house' but he's much calmer and i suppose, now, i don't hate him ... as much. You can't erase the past, but i think he's trying to make up for it.

Ugh, I don't know about my dad now-a-days.

My dad keeps to himself and my mother. He works a lot so he's either working, sleeping, or watching the Sci-Fi Network. We don't really share interests. I don't like him, or hate him. We are kinda estranged i guess you can say. I don't really know him that well, even though he's been there all my life. It's always hard to relate to him, because while he has the interests of dirt biking, guns, cars, and other interests like that, I persue interests of creative writing, and other things my macho dad would deem things that only "sensitive boys do". So I don't know him that well, sad to say.

I just found out my dad shook me four times throughout my time as a four-month old baby.

I- I don't know why, but I feel as if he hated me since I was born! I was a complete mistake!

He must hate me, knowing I was entirely unwanted and still managed to survive past the BCP in the freezing lands of Russia. I feel like shit thinking that he tried to kill me as an infant, and that my mother had to threaten to kill him to make him stop abusing me.

And years after he still abused me.

my dad is a good person but right now and for the last few years he has been sick with ceresis of the liver from lots of years of drinking and drug use when he was younger..its hard to watch and we get along now a lot better then we did years ago before he got sick...its hard to watch but he's always been good to me and my mom and brother its just i put him thru a lot when i was younger and seeing him the way he is now makes me realize that and i do what i can to help...I"ve read some people's post on this area and if anyone needs a friend to talk to let me know

My dad can be alright sometimes, which in other words hardly ever.

If my brother, mum or me said something that he doesn't agree with he starts an argument on how we only say we don't like something he likes because we ant to cause the fight.

I hate the fighting he causes, I always end up in tears and hardly being able to breath and he thinks I'm over reacting just to get attention.

He has slapped me and punched me in the head, he likes to put his forehead against mine and just stare maniacally into my eyes, so I do what most people would do push him away, that sets him off big time and he tries to drag me to my room, bruising me in the process, I have to lie to people about them and I hate it. I don't love my dad, I hate him, I hate him for his temper and the way he treats me and my family.


We just do not get on with each-other.

I don't like the guy.
Creeps the hell out of me.

Seriously, who thinks it's alright for their father to wear a shirt that says "It's not going to suck itself" in front of them?
I was really freaked out by it.
Basically, I get treated like any chick he might've met on the street.
Oh, and don't get me started on that disgusting, degrading t-shirt he bought for my birthday last year.

Which is why I never went to stay at his house this year.
And I probably won't go ever again, really xD

I don't know my bio dad. He left before I was born. But I'd love to know who he is, problem is, I don't like talking to my mum about important stuff like that. She did tell me where he lives though =S

My dad is the best, I love how cool calm and collected he is. He Takes me skiiing in the winter and he takes me to some of my hevy concerts and doesn't care he just does it and loves every second of it.=]

My dad is kind of dorky, like he gets over-excited over the simplist of things.

He's the kind of dad that just wants to hug you and make it seem like there's nothing you can never do.

But, he can be so annoying...

XD