Drink Spiking

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Billy Corgan Cliché Catastrophe Age: 86 Gender: Female Posts: 378	August 24th, 2008 at 01:24pm I had my drink spiked last night. For a definition of drink spiking, click. I don't remember much from last night, just flashes. I was at this massive party, and I was tipsy but I had only had a couple of drinks. Someone handed me a cruiser. A bit later I remember being pushed into this tiny, cramped toilet by some guy. He pushed me so I was sitting on the toilet seat and then forced me to give him a blow job. After that I can't recall anything. I don't know if he left it at that, or if it went further. When my friend found me, she said I was throwing up so violently she almost called an ambulance. Does anyone have any advice for any of this? I just don't know what to do.
Fall Out Haley. Ink Slinger Age: 16 Gender: Female Posts: 816	August 24th, 2008 at 04:55pm I've got a story. I was at school one morning, just minding my business at my locker putting my things away. I was kind of tired and out of it, so whatever. My friend, let's call him Craig, walked up to me with a Monster in his hand. "Haley, do you want some?" He offered it to me, and in my sleep deprieved state I didn't think twice. Afterwards he was like, "Does it taste different to you?" and I was like, "No, it doesn't. I didn't think of why he was asking that really, so I was just like, "Why?" and he was like, "Oh, I don't know. It tasted different to me." About a period had lapsed by, and I noticed there was something really different. I kept laughing obnoxiously and talking really loud, and it was out of my control. I was going down the stairs, and I could barely walk without clutching onto the banister. Moving on to the next period, my friend had asked me if I was drunk and such because of my behavior. Once I had finally seen Craig later that day, he had informed me that he dumped a shitload of vodka into the Monster. But at least it wasn't that bad, I was just mildly intoxicated at school. But as advice for you, I recommend you avoid drinking at parties. You're probably going to be like, "OH MY GOD WTF WHY WOULD I DO THAT?!" but it's for the best. It's the smart and logical thing to do, because things get out of hand at parties.
katerpiller Amateur Author Age: - Gender: Female Posts: 108	August 24th, 2008 at 11:26pm I would just have to say don't drink drinks that others hand you. And the oh so classic, "Always keep an eye on your drink, never let it out of your sight."
Eyes Only. Grammar Guru Age: 15 Gender: Female Posts: 4602	August 25th, 2008 at 03:53am I don't go to that many parties, but when I do, its always people I know. So maybe avoiding big parties would be a good idea? And I'm sorry you had to go through that
C_annibal Ink Slinger Age: 20 Gender: Female Posts: 786	August 25th, 2008 at 08:22am If you remember who the guy was, call the cops on him, because drink spiking is illegal and so is sexual assault, well no brainier there. (And then beat him with a tire iron when he isn't looking.) But when I go to house parties I bring my own drinks and always keep them on me in a cooler bag with a zip. When my drink is open and my lips aren't on it, my hand is always over the top of it, or if I leave my drink and go away from it, I don't pick it back up again. Or I bring a giant bottle of cordial that I mixed with vodka or something else at home and keep that on me at all times, even when I have to go pee, also that way I don't loose my drink and I can keep drinking while I pee
Coldwind4 Cliché Catastrophe Age: 14 Gender: Female Posts: 334	August 25th, 2008 at 08:55am I agree with everyone above. You should also go to a doctor to get checked up on that. Whether it was just the blowjob or more you could have an STD. And maybe possibly talk to someone?
Away_From_Reality Cliché Catastrophe Age: 15 Gender: Female Posts: 337	August 25th, 2008 at 09:34am I'm really sorry that happened to you!! You should definately try to talk to other friends, not necessarily telling them what happened to you, but so you can try to pull things together a little bit better. To figure out which guys where there, and which of them may have done it. I can't believe the horrid things people do these days. One of my friends got raped by her best guy friend. They were super close, so they used to have ocassional sleepovers (they would just hang out and watch movies or w/e.) And one of the nights they were at his house, and they were in his room hanging out. His Mom had already gone to sleep. He raped my friend...and she kept screaming for his Mom, but she didn't wake up. She didn't tell anyone but me about it at first. We had just met, but I guess it was one of those moments where you just have to blurt it out. She told me about it a few monthes after it happened, and I really felt like she should tell her parents, so they could discuss filing charges. She didn't want ANYONE to know, and I obviously respected that decision. A year later, she finally wanted to stand up and tell her parents, and file charges...and of course it was too late. She would have had to do something sooner. Good luck with everything.
liquor liss Fanfic Fanatic Age: 16 Gender: Female Posts: 1143	August 25th, 2008 at 08:08pm I'm sorry such a horrid thing happened to you =\ I have a similar story. I was at a show for my best friends brothers band. It was at some small club with no lights and a bunch of black lights, strobe lights and such. One of the waitresses came over and we ordered like Coke or something, but honestly I don't remember a lot of that night. Anyways she came back with our stuff and when I looked at mine it was like a purpley color while my friends looked normal. I didn't think anything of it figuring it was just the lights. When I drank it though it tasted a bit different but I thought maybe she ended up giving me regular Coke instead of diet. Long story short I ended up all woozy and when I got home I passed out until like 4 p.m. I wouldn't suggest drinking at parties, especially big ones with lots of people you don't know but if you want to keep an eye on your drink at all times ! Even if you go to a bar check your drink. I didn't expect it to happen to me, by an employee but hey. I hope everything works out for you
Skrillex. Fanfic Fanatic Age: 16 Gender: Female Posts: 1172	August 26th, 2008 at 01:57am That is so horrible what happened to you. If you can remember, give his details to the police. Just, don't take drinks that others give you at parties. And the one youse have, keep in sight.
libbey crocodile. Student Shakespeare Age: 16 Gender: Female Posts: 7859	August 30th, 2008 at 08:16am It is such a terrible reality. And nobody see's it happening to themself. Whenever I'm going to a see a band at a club my parent's say don't take drinks from anyone and always watch your drink. My parents are both cops and my mom tells me you wouldn't believe how many girls wake up naked and/or abused and have no idea what happened.
Poisonous.Touch Freak on a Leash Age: 15 Gender: Female Posts: 129	August 30th, 2008 at 09:42am That is scary, horrible, and disgusting .
music_is_love Amateur Author Age: 17 Gender: Female Posts: 101	August 31st, 2008 at 01:21am Aww, i'm sorry. I would say to go to a doctor and get yourself checked out, just in case he did go further. I hope everything's okay =)

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