Dad still doing it HELP!!!!!

My dad is still putting me down. It started when I told him that I cut, and he was all like "If you ever do it again, then I'll kick your ass." He told my mom, and she laughed and made fun of me. . . My dad told me the other day that when I got home from school shopping, he'd hit when I was defending myself!. . . . Just the other day he told me "You don't need any damn bras, you hardly have anything there, you're just mosquito bites still!". . . And then he practically called me a whore just because TWO guys called me Sunday! Then last night he was all like "Oh no that was your brother's words" and then he took away my cell, but that's not the point. . . The point is. . . I am tired of it and i don't know what to do. . . . It hurts and I can't do shit cuz he laughs at me. . . . He's also always asking about my therapist sessions and I've already told him they're to help with my past, and he rolls his eyes as if I'm suppose to be over the fact that I was raped. PLEASE help me!!!!!

I suggest you talk to someone your close with. A friend, a teacher, another Realitve, etc.
Try and get some help. Because what your parents do to you isn't right.
&& If you need someone to talk to, I'm here (:

My cousin's family was exactly the same way, and I know how you feel. I helped my cousin threw it, if you need release message me. But I suggested you let it out in another form besides self-harm, I know its something that will keep knawing at you, to just do it, but seriously, go to a park, scream on top of a hill, laugh, write, throw things, but don't hurt yourself.

My dad did that to me as well, but he ended up kicking me out in the end.

Tell someone very close to the family, and if it comes down to it, the police ( though that may need to be the last).

MrBrightsideIsMyHero:

You need to tell someone about this. He has no right whatsoever to treat you like this and if possible you need to get well away from him until he stops. Even if you tell a teacher at school - they're obligated to tell somebody of higher authority and they can help.

Exactly what I was gonna say.
You need to tell someone.

skrillex.:

MrBrightsideIsMyHero:

You need to tell someone about this. He has no right whatsoever to treat you like this and if possible you need to get well away from him until he stops. Even if you tell a teacher at school - they're obligated to tell somebody of higher authority and they can help.

Exactly what I was gonna say.
You need to tell someone.

They couldn't have said it better. But first to someone other than immediate family and if they don't listen and help you should go to higher authority. But cops should be last.

My dad is somewhat like that, "If you ever do it again, then I'll kick your ass."

like, he told me if i ever slammed the door again he would 'f*cken slap me" but it's not that bad if you can just ignore him altogether

The Brightside.:

You need to tell someone about this. He has no right whatsoever to treat you like this and if possible you need to get well away from him until he stops. Even if you tell a teacher at school - they're obligated to tell somebody of higher authority and they can help.

I agree. She took the words right out of my mouth.
Have you tried talking to anyone about it yet?

I really do hope for the best. I'll give you all my prayers.

I totally get what you're saying. My dad is the same way. Only he never really beat me or anything. But he always puts me down. I can barely talk to him and he'll start yelling at me. I'm nineteen and he still treats me like trash.

But you really should tell someone about it. That's not right. Especially since you're so young and from what I read, because of what you went through. I'm sure a teacher or a counselor will be able to help you out.

And if you ever want to talk, just PM me.

i go through the same

except with EVERYONE in my family

you need to talk to someone close to you, let this all out and like... well if you can get away a lot.

its what i do

if you want to talk..im here

corny as it sounds

The Brightside.:

You need to tell someone about this. He has no right whatsoever to treat you like this and if possible you need to get well away from him until he stops. Even if you tell a teacher at school - they're obligated to tell somebody of higher authority and they can help.

Agreed.

They'll get you proper help and that's what you need. This is abuse no doubt about it and it goes completely against human rights. You have not right to be treated that way.

Need someone I'm here.

I'm really sorry about that. I don't know if I'm all that good at advice, but in addition to asking for help. In an immediate circumstance I'll tell you something that helps me when people say things that get to me. Think about your favorite song and sing it in your head. Sing it really loud and concentrate on something happy. When they finish yelling listen to the song or occupy yourself with something fun or watch something that makes you laugh, so you don't think about it to much.