Be who you ARE

NEVER give up on life, no matter how bad it may seem. Life is suppose to be that way. God made it like this so we know the difference from right and wrong. Never be afraid to speak your opinion because it belongs to you and YOU only. All your thoughts, your dreams, and your ambitions belong to you. So if it seems you dont have much, trust me when i say you have more than you know. We all have choices and our own voice. We just need to learn how to decide.....and to make a sound. All your emotions you feel at any precise moment are yours alone and nobody except you can change them. Don't let anybody tell you how to live your life because it's not their's to live. They have their own life and just because they screwed it up doesn't mean they have to attack yours. Love deeply. Speak kindly. Regret nothing. Learn from not only your mistakes but from the ones of the others around you. Life is too short for you to make them all. Broken hearts are meant to happen, because then someone else can mend the cracks. Hands are meant for holding, lips are meant for speaking kind words, and hearts are meant for loving. Eyes speak that love silently. It's okay to hate something so never be afriad to look someone straight in the eye and tell them how you feel about them. Because some people can't get the hints you've made so obvious. You may get hurt in the process but better to let it out then to let it grow inside of you. Hate is only Love in the black mirror so it's just as valid as any other. Learn not because you need to but learn because you WANT to. Don't take things for granted because you might not have it the next day. Forget about yesterday and all your past heartbreaks. Their what made you strong from the start. You don't have to be brave for anybody, your only brave if you show your true feelings. Hiding it is cowardly. Showing it is courage. Don't dwell too much on the friends and loved ones you lost, there IS a reason they didn't make it for your future.

And before you love, trust, and respect anyone else:

Love, trust, and respect yourself.

If you can't be your own friend, you can't be anyone else's.


xoxo,
Lovingly-loveless357