how do you deal? [i need some major advice...]
how do you deal when your firiend was killed in a car accident?
my friend amanda was thrown from a car after slipping on ice, without wearing a seatbelt.
she hit a tree, suffered from a stroke, and died instantly.
she was only 15
it horrifies me because i just saw her on thursday at school
and went to a concert with her on wednesday night.
i didnt talk to her yesterday; she died at about 10 last night
and i was one of the first to know.
she didn't deserve this at all.
and there were three other kids in the car who were also friends of mine that lived through the crash with bruises.
tell me, how do you deal when you can't get mad at the driver and you can't blame it on anyone because it wasn't a fault, it was just a big circle of fatal mistakes.
my friend amanda was thrown from a car after slipping on ice, without wearing a seatbelt.
she hit a tree, suffered from a stroke, and died instantly.
she was only 15
it horrifies me because i just saw her on thursday at school
and went to a concert with her on wednesday night.
i didnt talk to her yesterday; she died at about 10 last night
and i was one of the first to know.
she didn't deserve this at all.
and there were three other kids in the car who were also friends of mine that lived through the crash with bruises.
tell me, how do you deal when you can't get mad at the driver and you can't blame it on anyone because it wasn't a fault, it was just a big circle of fatal mistakes.
Posted on December 21st, 2008 at 07:45am
Aww, I very sorry to hear about this.
Like Doomsday said you live, mourn, and keep living. Remember at one point we'll all leave, whether by moving, growing up, dying. It happens, it's part of life, maybe not that best, but it's there. And when you think of her, don't think about fights you've had or anything. Think about that best of her, and the joys she brought.
And as cheesy as this sounds: Remember she probably wants you to be happy, and keep living a great live.
It just takes time, I wish all the best to you, and her love ones. I'm here to talk if you want.
MaryJulianna, December 21st, 2008 at 08:59:59pm
A friend of mine was killed last week. I know what your going through.
QUOTE:
"Death is but crossing the world, as friends do the sea; they live in one another still. "
Opium.Rainbows, December 21st, 2008 at 11:50:35am
I'm so sorry, I'm here to talk if you need.
I guess all you can do is accept it and know she's in a good place or something.
Rainbowing, December 21st, 2008 at 11:06:49am
You deal because you have to.
You just... figure it out. I don't know how.
I can't lie to you. You just live, you mourn, you live.
You shouldn't think of her death as only sad, though.
Death is a part of live. You should smile, just for her.
If you need anything feel free to message me.
Fedex, December 21st, 2008 at 08:42:42am