Concerning a guy's version of "love" and the relay of sweet nothings
Gosh. I could laugh in this guy's face right now. I was in first period, passing notes to my guy friend even though we where sitting right by each other.
And just so you get a mental picture of what he's like, I'll tell you that he's a good for nothing dog with three different girlfriends (none of them know about each other) and a knack for doing everything wrong on purpose. He's the kind of guy that will sit in class and deliberately take out his phone so he can argue about if he should get a referral or not. He's one of those people who pick fights, wears super baggy pants, and thinks he can rap when he can't.
To put it frankly - he's my friend, but he's definitely not my type.
I guess my problem today is this: while passing notes, he brought up a topic I've already dreaded when conversing with my guy friends - "Being something more."
Ugh, god, I can't stand that phrase. 'I wanna be more than friends.' It's so unoriginal and desperate and just...lame. It's an instant put off.
Then he goes on to say things like
You mean the world to me, I would never try to hurt you.
I love you, baby, so why can't we be something more?
You're the only thing that matters to me.
Oh-kay, hold up.
I've known this idiot for a mere two months. The only time we get to talk is three times a day from across the room or through notes. We have nothing in common, know close to zilch about each other, and yet he tells me he loves me.
After he's told me about his relationships with his girlfriends like I'm one of his guy buddies or something - yeah, lots of details there.
Excuse me if I seem like I'm the one in the wrong here, but I'm pretty sure it's hard to fall for a guy who's hotheaded and uses corny pickup lines like "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?". All that fake mushy shit is just soo...annoying and petty. I want nothing to do with him right now, I'm so vexed.
I hate it when guys (or people in general, really) think they can swoon someone by using retarded pickups and phrases and pretend to really care about you when they don't. What's worse is when I can see so clearly through the lies and they can't even realize it.
I mean - really?
I'd love to just punch him in the face every time he spoke to me, but I'd probably end up getting my ass handed to me if I did. xD
I don't really know where this rant is going at this point. These thoughts have been running around in my head all throughout the day, and I felt like Mibba was the place to let them run free for the time being.
~CI.
A guy's gotta try a little bit harder than that if they want to act like their emotions are really there for someone.
Posted on September 24th, 2009 at 04:07am
Yes, pick-up lines are stupid. :/
Hahaha, yester I was going to sharpen a pencil and I thought this guy was going to playful hit me when he came by( along story) so I flinched back and this other guy was like, "What are you doing." And I looked at him and said, "I thought he was goingto hit me." And the guy says, "No one would ever hit you. You're too beautiful.' I lol'ed at that one cause I really didn't know the guy. But I did say thanks. :]
A.Broken.Mess, September 24th, 2009 at 12:16:33pm
I think you should punch him. The sudden display of bad-assery would shock him into goodness. xD
ely., September 24th, 2009 at 04:42:53am
Agreed.
*Cough*
Change, September 24th, 2009 at 04:26:02am
Gah. He sounds like a jerk, no offense.
>.< I just dumped my boyfriend. I couldn't deal with everything.
Now I'm realizing that everything I've done the past month is the completely wrong thing.
Oh well.
Now one of my guy friends that I've known...uh.
A month, is falling head-over-heels for me.
He told my friend that we're secretly dating.
Obviously it's being kept pretty dang well if even I don't know.
Cronster, September 24th, 2009 at 04:23:53am
haha I know what you mean... I mean, at camp this summer I had this creepy guy that was just so... ugh, not my type, and corny.... Ugh, it was terrible because he wouldn't leave me alone. XD
Yeah most pick-ups lines are stupid. And I hate it when they are the type that make the person flatter themselves. It's like... really? Come on.
Well good luck with your friend there. :P
MaryJulianna, September 24th, 2009 at 04:13:25am