do they hate me
Okay.. my mom and I get in alot of fights over dumb things, as usual, but the other night she said something to me that i will NEVER EVER forget. We were eating supper at McDonalds and I got fries and a big mac yeah yeah.. and i had like 10 french flies left and i could not eat anymore, or i would BLOW!! and i threw them away. As i walk out of the kitchen my mom starts saying/yelling " why in the hell didnt you eat all that. money doesnt grow on tree's. or it doesnt come out of my ass!" I mean, come on, ten frech fries! We were arguing for like 30 minutes after that. And all of a sudden i here, "Your a disgrace. A MISTAKE! A HELL CHILD! I was going to put you up for adoption when you were born, but your father told me not to!! I F*CK!NG HATE YOU!! I seriously just wanted to tackle her! I cried for like 2 hours after she said those harmful words. My heart felt like it missed 1000 beats the minute she said that. I just cant believe she said that Did she mean it? Please Comment and tell me what you would do if your mom/dad or and family member has said something close to that.
THANKS SO MUCHH!
naommii?
THANKS SO MUCHH!
naommii?
Posted on November 3rd, 2009 at 07:18pm
Oh wow.
I'm sorry she said that.
And I know that when parents, or anyone you love says that, it's extremely hard to get over it and forget what they said.
I mean, you will never forget. But, don't ever hold something she says against her.
She was probably having a terrible day (which is no excuse) and everything just built up and she just exploded.
I'm 99.9999% positive she said it out of anger and frustration and not because she actually meant it.
I hope this helped.
:)
EatsRainbows, November 4th, 2009 at 12:57:02am
'that's really mean for your mom to say that. Though I don't think see really means it. People say stuff like that when they get frustrated. I bet that when you're gone they miss you like crazy. But still, as a mother you don't say something like that to your child :O
my brothers used to say that they wish I was never born. They always said it like a joke, but still it did hurt for somehow.
Fearless to Fly, November 3rd, 2009 at 08:00:23pm
For the record, I wish to choke your mother - or take a bat to her face, for that matter - for saying that to you. She probably didn't mean it, and is just seriously...deranged at this point in time. But on the off chance that she did, she doesn't deserve a daughter like you. And throwing away ten french fries isn't a big deal, and it doesn't give a good reason for her to say anything close to that. You should probably let her cool down, and give her some space so she doesn't say anything else that's completely uncalled for with malicious intentions. You could probably talk to your dad about it, if that's an option. It might make you feel better. But she shouldn't have said that, and I'm sorry she did. *hugs*
Kismet, November 3rd, 2009 at 07:27:09pm
wow I can say that I have actually been in a situation similar,it wasnt my mom tho. It was my sister. She had once told me that she hated me and that it was my fault that our mom died. After that It really hurt me that she would say that. She did explain later that she was just angry and it was a stupid thing to say but yet it still hurt.My advice to you is that you just give her some space for a while, dont talk to her, and maybe she will realize that what she said was hurtful. I guess thats the best you can hope for.
myoneandonly, November 3rd, 2009 at 07:21:35pm