I can't believe my mother just said that.
I was looking at a picture of my friend on myspace and my mom goes,
"Oh, that girl is a wack job."
And I asked why and she said,
"There were bandages on her wrist and she looked depressed.
She was a psycho."
First of all,
there were NOT bandages on her wrist.
Second of all,
she was not looking depressed in any way whatsoever.
Infact, the guy she adored had called her that night and told her
that he loved her more than anything thing in the world.
She was extremely happy.
But that's not why i'm mad,
I'm mad because my mother called somone who she thought was
depressed a 'psycho' and 'wack job.'
Mom,
depression is not psychotic.
It is an illness.
An illness I had for a very long time,
which you kindly ignored.
How dare she.
How dare she.
I am so angry will her right now,
I'm shaking.
You know what mom?
As horrible and awful as it sounds.
You were seriously a big part in why i was depressed.
I'm sorry I'm not the perfect little daughter you wanted me to be.
Oh my God.
I am so mad at her.
I am so mad right now.
I can't believe her.
I'm like,
going to pop.
"Oh, that girl is a wack job."
And I asked why and she said,
"There were bandages on her wrist and she looked depressed.
She was a psycho."
First of all,
there were NOT bandages on her wrist.
Second of all,
she was not looking depressed in any way whatsoever.
Infact, the guy she adored had called her that night and told her
that he loved her more than anything thing in the world.
She was extremely happy.
But that's not why i'm mad,
I'm mad because my mother called somone who she thought was
depressed a 'psycho' and 'wack job.'
Mom,
depression is not psychotic.
It is an illness.
An illness I had for a very long time,
which you kindly ignored.
How dare she.
How dare she.
I am so angry will her right now,
I'm shaking.
You know what mom?
As horrible and awful as it sounds.
You were seriously a big part in why i was depressed.
I'm sorry I'm not the perfect little daughter you wanted me to be.
Oh my God.
I am so mad at her.
I am so mad right now.
I can't believe her.
I'm like,
going to pop.
Posted on October 16th, 2007 at 09:50am
My mom does stuff like that, too.
I was getting teased at school and crying my eyes out
and she's like,
"What are you doing!?
Go clean your room!"
:/
-huggles-
Moms are mean.
Sid and Nancy, October 17th, 2007 at 04:55:32am
my mom said something like that to me the other.
actually pretty much the same thing except different adjectives.
my mom seems to think that she can judge like that.
i went to the doctor for depression, and all she cared about what " you better wear your school blazer"
aka
" you better wear your proper school uniform and look smart, because if you look smart, then nobody can blame me for my stupid f*cking daughter. its not my proplem shes a twat" and other following things..
gahsh, mothers sucks.
im pretty much disowned at the moment.
she can't even look me in the eyes, just for exsisting and being true to myself.
and even at that she doesn't know half the sh*t, like the whole i fancy both sex's kinda thing.
hope your okay love, and hopefully not that fuming!
xxxxxx
queen of spades., October 17th, 2007 at 04:49:40am
I understand, cause my mother is also like that. I just get very happy with my friends and brother~ Just don't let her words get to you, no matter what she say or do, you are in control! No matter how judgemental, how uncapable they are of listening to you, you're not alone~
:) I hope I made you feel a little better~
CrimsonSnowGoodbyes, October 16th, 2007 at 09:01:03pm
Mothers always think they know best and know everything just because they've lived longer then us. It's a typical parental thing to think that.
My Mom ignores my depression too...
Misericordia, October 16th, 2007 at 03:19:40pm
Unfortunately people judge before they know....
as the saying goes, "Can't judge a book by its cover."
And too many people judge before reading......
I think a lot of moms are like that...its sad really.
Anyways, sorry to hear that!
MemphisandCollege, October 16th, 2007 at 11:02:52am
Woah. I know how you feel the only difference is I tryed very hard for my mom to ignore it and still am.
Gmaj7, October 16th, 2007 at 10:19:06am
My mom's like that.
So I know how it feels.
If she even knew how I feel when I'm not putting on a show for her....
I'm sorry she said that.
=[
Freshly squeezed, October 16th, 2007 at 10:17:08am
she's a really nice and pleasant woman.
i love her.
but, sometimes she's so mean and cruel and just plain awful.
Sid and Nancy, October 16th, 2007 at 10:06:06am
*tries not to say anything direspectful about ur mom* GAH!!!!!
Sazor, October 16th, 2007 at 10:04:00am
That was wrong. :[
They just don't know us sometimes...
Blooregard Q. Kazoo, October 16th, 2007 at 09:55:20am
Mothers can be rude : (
frayed ends, October 16th, 2007 at 09:54:05am
i know the feeling. i have a bit of an anger problem myself, and my parents usually play quite a role in that. i have had that shaking angry feeling too. many times. from my parents. and yes, parents are great at ignoring your problems.
shwayze., October 16th, 2007 at 09:53:58am