then stick a fork in me, I'm done
Everyone needs something, deny it or not, you want someone there to listen to be compained with and so on. We work so hard to strengthen a relationship that is easily shattered over a few text messages.
Best friends claim to be their for each other, but what about when one of them gets a boyfriend whose character seems a little shabby and the other one is worried, is that really enough to tear apart two "BFF"? If a friend cares about a server problem we have, why do we turn them away? Should it be hoes before bros?
Or better yet, what if you completely ignore your best friend. Just forget about them and leave them to rot. How are we suppose to feel in that situation? Accept sitting alone at the lunch table? Smile?It seems if you bring up the topic you feel left out or whatever, your condemned, instead of your freind?
the definition of "friend" in the dictionary is, " 1a one attached to another by affection or esteem b: acquaintance
2 a: one that is not hostile b: one that is of the same nation, party, or group
3: one that favors or promotes something (as a charity)
4: a favored companion"
why is it we can throw that word around so much and yet seem to just spit it in the face of kids who have social problems?
Being a loner on the side of a playground, talking to imaginary friends while everyone else has a real friend to play with, watching pairs of 2,3,4 etc. while your alone. You can escape that if you get placed with that shitty job, yet sometimes you slip back in, and its a bitch.
So if someone shows their true colors as they cuss you out on text messages, what should we really do? All those good memories, every thing you ever did for that induvidual erased because of something stupid.
If thats really friendship in this world, then just stick a fork in me, I'm finished with this bulshit.
Best friends claim to be their for each other, but what about when one of them gets a boyfriend whose character seems a little shabby and the other one is worried, is that really enough to tear apart two "BFF"? If a friend cares about a server problem we have, why do we turn them away? Should it be hoes before bros?
Or better yet, what if you completely ignore your best friend. Just forget about them and leave them to rot. How are we suppose to feel in that situation? Accept sitting alone at the lunch table? Smile?It seems if you bring up the topic you feel left out or whatever, your condemned, instead of your freind?
the definition of "friend" in the dictionary is, " 1a one attached to another by affection or esteem b: acquaintance
2 a: one that is not hostile b: one that is of the same nation, party, or group
3: one that favors or promotes something (as a charity)
4: a favored companion"
why is it we can throw that word around so much and yet seem to just spit it in the face of kids who have social problems?
Being a loner on the side of a playground, talking to imaginary friends while everyone else has a real friend to play with, watching pairs of 2,3,4 etc. while your alone. You can escape that if you get placed with that shitty job, yet sometimes you slip back in, and its a bitch.
So if someone shows their true colors as they cuss you out on text messages, what should we really do? All those good memories, every thing you ever did for that induvidual erased because of something stupid.
If thats really friendship in this world, then just stick a fork in me, I'm finished with this bulshit.
Posted on June 20th, 2008 at 10:16am
I've definitely had a lot of those "friends" in the past
A true friend is far more than that dictionary definition. A true friend is there through good and bad. A true friend loves you when you forget how to love yourself. A true friend is willing to listen when you call him or her at 1am because you really need someone to talk to. Yeah, you might fight with them from time to time but they are there when it really matters, when you really need them. True friends are hard to find and they are irreplaceable.
music_addict, June 22nd, 2008 at 10:33:22am
Nah, that ain't friendship.
I would define a friend as a person who you can be your best self with.
saveroftheworld, June 20th, 2008 at 05:17:13pm
I know how that feels... And it sucks. But the whole world isn't like that. I usually can't stand my best friend because she is SO insufferably c*cky and she's dumber than a door knob, plus the fact that she stole my bf, but I don't have any idea what I would do without her. We are always there for eachother, through thick and thin, and even though we fight more than we should, she is like my sister. So, don't give up just yet. Keep trying, and if it doesn't work out, then your friend(s) are really missing out. If things turn out okay, then you know that it was a good thing to keep trying. Good Luck!
ThE.lYnChEd.LaDy, June 20th, 2008 at 01:09:48pm