I would really like a few opinions on what to do here. - Comments

He's just a dink. Don't feel stupid - it wasn't your fault one bit. He lead you on.

I'm sorry he's been treating you like that. :[

It isn't your fault, that guy is rude, and you deserve so much better. He isn't who you thought he was, and that's sad. Honestly, as a victim of rape myself, if someone told me to "suck it up" I'd be peeved. You are beautiful, and deserve so much more. It'll hurt staying away from him, but maybe you should do it. Cut the things that make you upset out of your life.

Ugh. Guys. Are there any good ones left?

i agree with both ppl here. i have a feeling that he is just one of those super friendly guys who truly are oblivious to ones feelings. as for the rape deal, dnt date him. if hes gonna treat u like tht while ur friends, imagine how badly he'll treat u once your together. hes someone i seriously suggest dropping altogether

That's terrible. Really though, I think you should sort of shy away from him if it's hurting you so badly. He'll probably get the idea or he'll just be oblivious like lots of guys tend to be. Try not to surround yourself by people that upset you if you don't have to.

Don't feel bad, its not your fault. Obviously he isn't the kind of guy you thought he was. You should ask him what his problem is, because maybe he has some stuff going on in his life right now that he's having trouble dealing with

Or I could be full of sh*t...anyway I hope everything works out for you <3