I need help not to be a jackass - Comments

the fact you posted this shows you care so your not a jakass.
you cant help that you dont feel anything for her, so it would be wrong not to tell her how you feel.
im sure she will understand.
probably a bit late now : )
good luck
xx

Indeed. I recently lost all faith in women as I was accused of sexual harrassment, and so now any girl foolish enough to get close is met with a wall of icy comments and sarcasm until she is driven off. Therefore illustrating that I will, in fact, die alone as planned.

Thank you every one as this is some great advice but I am probably not going to follow it fully I will try to implement it.

it's just one big shit sandwich you're gonna have to take a bite out of, cause you set yourself up for a fall. but....tell her this if anything,

"I know that we fooled around recently, and that it may have sparked some emotions and ideas. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it, but i think it was hasty and wreckless on my part. My emotios and hormones got ahead of me, and i think that we should rethink this before it gets too out of hand. I don't know how you feel about it, and i'd like to know. I just don't want you to think that i used you, because that is not the case, if i were to use you, i wouldn't even be talking to you right now, trying to make sure you're okay and i'm okay and that we both are on the same page here...."

try that, and when she speaks, listen and hear her out untl she is done, that'll strike up some respect points cause it shows you are a good listener and respect her opinion and thoughts. good luck.

The best way not to be a jackass is not to lie about it. Tell her the honest truth and that's the best way to handle it. At least you're being honest and not making some pathetic excuse. That's my opinion.

You cant let anyone down and not hurt them.

It sucks I know. Just tell the truth if you lie and the person finds out you lie i would really feel for you. It would be really bad and then you will feel bad for lying.

and also say that your sorry that kinda helps a bit.

sorry I'm not that helpful really

Well, there's no way in hell that you can let someone down easily. It still hurts no matter what you do.

So you will feel a bit bad, but just tell her the truth. Honesty is the best policy. You can't live a lie forever.

Nickel.