I Hate Being The Girl...'Friend'

God, I hate just being the girl guys either hate, or just want to be friends with.
It get's annoying after a short time, I like one of my best guy friends, and he likes and is dating one of my friends that goes through guys like bottles of water in a desert.
It's not fair, because no matter what i do i still like him...I start liking someone else, oh look there he is in the back of my mind.
Try thinking about this other guy i like, Kirtland, and still i think about him. Go on myspace today, and start iming him, he tell's me he did something, and i guess, and he dosent reply.
im not going to say what, because that wouldnt be right.
Anyways, im at work, and all i can think about is Him, and it's driving me crazy, because ugh, i think i like him more then i think...which is bad, for the thing about me not believeing in the stupid cliche and romance stuff like most people.
But most of all it's weird that i cant get him out of my mind because i dont believe in the L word...so it doesnt make sense to me.
Advice, anyone?