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Do the female sex; have serious issue of making the right decisions, when it comes to men, love, sex, and relationships? With all the things going on today it is a great possibility. But is it true for all girls? I was told that girls as in all of us have this problem. I am not sure if it is true or not but hey it’s out there. Now I had got offended when I heard the "all" terminology. Because not every girl in my belief is the same, scratch that not every two person in general is the same. Yes, we have all made mistakes when it has come to the opposite gender. But is it possible that every girl makes the very same mistake as far as these topics? I have no fucking idea; I mean I only know about me. And me says noooo, we don't. I have had my fair share of romantic blunders which have shape who I am now. But I do not believe that they make me "dumb". No, I think it made me more knowledgeable in fact. For example my ex had broken up with to get with a girl whom I believed I was on good terms with. Long story short he got her pregnant while (lack for a better term) was still FUCKING me. I had no clue till it was obviously too late. I stuck around not entirely for him but for me. Maybe to test my limitations, yes, I know what you all are thinking. "Well you were pretty dumb for that one." Well readers out there in cyber space I do not think so. I was with this guy through A LOT, so I thought I could get through this. The most stupid thing I did during that time was not give him a second chance. But was believe that he loved me enough to be completely honest about everything. And did he? Of course not he has a penis come on! Ok not helping my case, but the point is that I learned from that experience. And sorry to all dads’ out there but that has seriously turned me off from perusing relationships with "Baby Daddies". Do not get me wrong I have all the respect for you especially if you are doing what you should as a father. And to ladies if you feel you can handle being with someone with child go ahead this is not to discourage you in any way. It’s just to let out some feelings I assume you may call them about a topic which has been thrown in my face. But anyways back to the topic at hand, not every person is the same and yes maybe we have made "dumb" decisions but it should be considered "dumb" by the person. I mean who are we to tell someone that they are "dumb” for the decisions that they made in THEIR LIFE. It is their life, so how about we pay attention to our own live s and leave people and their mistakes to figure if it was "dumb" or not. Ok I’m done now. =]
September 14th, 2012 at 05:37am