At What Age Does It Become Pathetic You're a Virgin?

Never.

Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.

I'm twenty years of age, turning twenty one this year. Recently, I had a really bad experience with a guy that set off all these conflicting feelings about the fact that the furthest I have ever gone is kissing.

"No one will know," he kept saying on repeat. "But I will know. I replied. I did not save myself for twenty years to throw it away on some guy whom I'm not even dating. He kept pushing the issue, and made passes at me that got dangerously close to rape.

In the end, he made some comment to the effect of, "What are you saving it for? Marriage?"

I can only describe his tone as scoffing, and it shocked me. That isn't a bad thing, not is it any of his business when I decide to give myself to someone.

Sorry I didn't want to lose my virginity in a park to a guy who objectifies women, dude.