Hey Mibba, I Need Your Help!

So I'm going through a bit of a 'what am I doing with my life' moment and it sucks horsecock.

As many of you know, I'm a complete music geek, and have been since I could talk. I grew up watching Rocky Horror and listening to Lou Reed all day and night. I just feel like at this stage of my life, I'm nowhere near where I thought I'd be. I could have a degree by now, but instead I'm working in a kebab shop and hanging around with dropkicks.

I'm currently dating a games programmer; sound cool right? Wrong. Said programmer is a 23 year old virgin who still lives with his mother.

I'll be the first to admit I'm a bit of a sex vixen. We've been dating 6 months. He still wants to wait. I feel like we're not compatible at all but I'm too scared to tell him that.

I could really use some advice guys. I can't be stuck in a rut anymore.

I love you all.

Kaity