Why is it so hard to find One

I know their is somebody out there for me
But it's so hard to find
Getting older I think to myself
Why don't they like me
I see couple smiling, kissing
Telling each other they love them
I always wonder
Why can't I find mine
Am I ugly
Am I a joke
I don't know what's wrong with me
I really don't know
I try to look
But end up with noting
Just a piece of junk
That I'll end up throwing away
I know it's mean
But hey that's life
I try and try and try
Finding the One
But end up with shit
That I don't even want
Please tell me
Why is it so hard to find the One?