Falling for You Was Out of My Control - Comments

love love love where the story is going!!

Oh these two with the adopting!!!!

"First time skate, first time walk" I love how skating came first haha

Awwww. Andrei is so cute. Evengi and Jessie deserve to be happy and help that little boy.

I'm so sorry I have commented or read this chapter until now I haven't been getting notifications saying that a story has been updated since Saturdaty but yes I do think Evgeni and Jessie should sit and talk about everything and if they are truely ready for this sweet little boy and everything that comes with him but knowing Evgeni and the big heart he has he will say yes, he wants a baby just as much as Jessie and I think it will be an amazing experience for the both of them!!! Love it <3

Oh my good the precious baby maybe a leap of faith is what they need but travel with him isn't going to be easy.

I kind of agree with Jayess.

I think that deciding to adopt a special needs child is not something that anyone should rush into. I think that adoption is not something that people should rush into, especially after a loss. And I think that a child should come into one's life because one is ready for a child, not because one feels like they need something to do, a reason for living. A child's job is to be a child, not a cure, not a cure for loneliness, not a cure for a loss. Children are forever. What if a child doesn't make her feel better? It's not the child's job to fix them, to fix her. to fix anyone.

I feel like you're rushing them.

Can't wait for Jeffery and Sebastian to be back in the story all four of them together had good times and they say a dog can help heal so maybe that's what Jessie and Evgeni need time now, their family time to heal together, to get back completely to where they were and in the place where their love started!!!! Love it <3

These two are crazy cute and it's nice to see the parallels that they are thinking on the same track basically

Ow ow spontaneity is always good and working out being aggressive, it's good to get some of that out. I'm so glad they've talked !

Yay they are starting to get their fun loving side back, Jessie and Evgeni are coming back slowly but surely and what a tease Jessie can be toward Evgeni and I'm sure he missed!!!!! Love it<3

Yay! :D

I really love babies, wow he's precious!
I'm glad they at least had a break through, it wasn't much if a talk but they hit the nail on the head with what's important and what the main problem affecting them is.

I'm glad Evgeni finally broke his slientness a bit hopefully this will open up to a big conversation about everything they need to talk about! Love it<3

Ps you're nephew is adorable! Congratulations to you and you're family :)

@ Jayess
Ok I know what you are saying here and I know I probably should have used other terms but Evgeni doesn't actually understand and because it's from his POV nothing seems to make sense, adding to the confusion.
I know I probably should have followed Jessie in hospital for a while but I wasn't sure if I should have gotten into the nitty gritty. But for a start I shouldn't have used the word miscarriage I should have said ectopic pregnancy and it's because of that they found out she has damaged Fallopian tubes. Now I know that doesn't necessarily mean she won't ever get pregnant but some doctors say stuff.

I was hoping to clarify all this in the next chapter when they talk :)

No doctor worth his or her salt will say anything about a woman's ability to have future children if all the bits are in place and normal looking even if there's been 1 miscarriage. Miscarriage, though sad, are common and not unusual, especially in the first trimester. Most doctors won't even do much testing until after a woman has had 3 losses. Up to a third of pregnancies are miscarried, many in the first few days before a woman generally knows she is pregnant. So a miscarriage can be an indication that there's something wrong with a woman but most of the time it's not. In fact, we wouldn't necessarily want a lot of the miscarriages not to happen because a great number of them are because there's something wrong with the way the embryo is developing. Put it this way - it is a very complicated dance of millions of steps to make a baby from the egg up. Any mis-step in the very beginning, whether a genetic trisomy or other issue, or an error in development, is usually fatal.

That said, it can be a devastating loss. But I really doubt she is infertile just from one miscarriage.

Awe brotherly love and I completely agree with his brother they both need to sit down and talk about it and their options maybe even a thought would be to do a surrogate mother maybe Evgeni's sister in law or adoptions!!! Love it <3

a little brotherly love and advice is always nice ! (see what I did there XD) I love this story so much omg and Denis is right be needs to go and force her to talk.