Saying I Love You To Early - Comments

I have been dating my current boyfriend for 5 days now and I havent said I love him. I think its still at the like stage and I dont want to lie about something that means so much. I hate it when guys say 'I love you' as soon as you start going out. You have to wonder if they mean it! Everything takes time, we just need to learn a bit of patience.

Well, the guy that I'm dating,we've known each other for a year because we work together...so we were friends first. We talked for a month and now we've been dating for almost two months.
We've already told each other that we love each other. And I know we mean it. Otherwise, neither one of us would have said it.
So, I don't know...

My ex with alot of his recent gfs he immediatly says it
I asked him about that and he said sometimes they say it so he thinks that he has to say it even if he doesn't me it
that makes me think wow thats terrible
i mean if he told me he loved me i wouldn't have said it back cause i knew from the beggining that it wasn't love
He "loves" all of his gf I told him there is no way possible that you could have.
So when it comes to i love you not alot of people know what there saying and they might not even know love

with my ex i said i love you on the first day but that was because i genuinly did with all my heart, with the relationship im in now weve not said it at all to each other. Try writing a letter when your by yourself, i always find that works well for me, you dont even have to be there when he reads it just give it to him and say i dont want you to read it now read it when your alone. Give it a go good luck x

My boyfriend I'm with now said I Love You like three days after we started going out. I said it back, but it was like an automatic reflex. Then I kept saying it because i couldn't not say it if I already had. But now we've been together for 6 months, and I really do love him. And I don't think it's that weird anymore because we were talking about how we got together and the things that led up to it, and he told me that a certain day before we got together where we went to a movie together, was the day he fell in love with me. And I truly believe that sometimes, it IS that easy.

I said "I love you" to one of my boyfriend of last year. Yeah. Too early.

He interpreted that as "Hey, we can have sex after homecoming." Erm, NO.

"I almost told you that i love you. Thank God I didn't, 'cause it would've been a lie."
^ words to live by. :]

I think our generation says it too fast. I mean yeah you could be inlove and I 'm not saying that you can't fall in love at a certain age but I think we are saying it too fast. Right now i can't even say it too my friend, and I rarely say it too my mom.

I just recently said "I love you" to my boyfriend, when we had been dating for 4 months. I was scared that it was too early at the time, because he said it first and I didn't want to upset him, but then I realized that I really do love him. I think that saying it the first day is ridiculous, because then there's nothing to work up to, no special moment to wait for. This is only my opinion, but it makes sense to me.

I know what Restless means.

And, as for your point.
I have told boys I loved him, and even this one special girl that I loved her.
I meant it every time. Or I thought I did.

But, really. We need to work up the strength for it. I haven't said "I love you" to my boyfriend since he left for juvie, and when I first said it to him I really meant it. When I first saw him, I was completely in love with him and I knew it. It was so strong, and it's going to be a month tomorrow and I still love him. Even though it's been 12 days since he left. I still love him.

The way I said it to him,
I said it when we were sitting on the couch together. He pulled me in to kiss me and I looked at him with these big eyes, (well my eyes are always big), and he said it to me. So I said it back, and it was like, wow. Cause I love him.

The other boy I fell in love with the first time I met him, was David. My ex of five months. We were at a party, and kissed and I was laying down and with him and all this stuff. The way he told me he loved me, was he wrote it on his wrist, showed me it after he pointed to himself, a heart and then to me. And then we held hands until he got out of the car to leave.

I thought it was cute, and special because he meant it.

do you love him twix, or do you love the realationship ur in?

I think our generation stinks on ice and we should all die.

Okay not that extreme, but our generation is being ridiculous and I wonder how it all got this way. I blame technology in one part. We all became lazy. Then there is 6th graders going out, 7th graders having sex, and 8th graders doing drugs. The world is going straight downhill and there is now way of stopping it.

I really am glad to say that I am 14 years old, I've never had my first kiss or boyfriend and I'm planning on keeping it like that for a while, but not for too long like when I'm 30.

And as for "I love you" well...we are stupid.