I'm Really TORN! I Need Some Advice. - Comments

  • KatieJatieBatie

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    okay so here's the thing,
    if you met him online, and have no idea what he looks like then he's probably some 40 year old dude (not sure but maybe) and if he souds really mature he probably is older than 14....
    August 22nd, 2009 at 12:10am
  • Color me Lily;

    Color me Lily; (100)

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    If you met a guy online, there's a HUGE chance he's just a creeper so be super careful. Like you said you feel 15 with the other guy. Even if he is 13, is he mature?

    Just take it slow and you don't have to make a decicison just yet.
    Good luck(:
    August 20th, 2009 at 09:48pm
  • XSoulXLoverX

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    peacelovejill-Once again a very very valid point there. It's just like well it won't work...and not because of the age. Thanks!

    Break the Silence- I get where you're coming from! I really have to think a lot! But I think that I'm not going for any of them really.

    idareyou-Yeah. A point made there too.

    Thanks for the advice! I appricate it! :)
    August 10th, 2009 at 01:38am
  • idareyou

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    i don't think you should ever go for someone bhind a computer screen, you don't REALLY know them, but think about it and you'll pick the right one.
    August 10th, 2009 at 01:31am
  • Ponyboy

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    hmm... well, personally I don't really see how a long distance relationship can work... I mean, come on, 15 hours, that's a long distance.

    If I were you, I would just wait and date someone that I actually knew persaonally. It's work better that way.

    But that's just me---you do what you think feels right :)
    August 10th, 2009 at 12:51am
  • still waters;

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    Well, for one, the guy on Quizilla, don't trust him.
    You never know who's on the other side of that computer screen.
    He could be 14. Or, he could be 10. Or, he could be 50 for all you know.
    Be careful.

    On to the other guy, if you really like him, go for it. Who cares about age?

    I say, only you know who you like the most.
    That's your decision and I can't make that for you.

    Good luck!
    August 9th, 2009 at 11:15pm
  • Break the Silence

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    my advice, just be friends with them both and leave it at that. long distance relationships never ever ever work. it sucks but that's just the way it is.

    but if you're dead set on trying to make it work with one of them... who makes you smile more? who do you trust more? who do you feel more yourself with? answer those basic questions and you should be able to choose.

    i hope you figure everything out.
    August 9th, 2009 at 11:13pm