I'm Going To Kill Him - Comments

I guess I could do that. Like I dont have a problem with them being friends. I just dont want him to hid getting together.

Well, if you just straight up say what you feel and if this girl is ruining/hurting your relationship by making him seem like a cheater, (Well I think that is what you mean by saying that she is saying they're still together) then he shouldn't want to be her friend. Because she's not being a good friend to him by trying to ruin a friendship. So maybe you should just try to explain how you feel and your own perspective on the situation.
^^That's what I meant, not to be controlling.

He doesn't sound like a cheater. I mean he is allowed to have other friends, such as his ex, as are you. Right?

Calm down a bit and then you should call him back or something. Just let him know how it makes you feel. I guess

Well I don't want to be that controling girlfriend.

I've been through this.
My boyfriend goes and talks on the phone with his ex. And makes plans with other girls and lies to me about it; or hides it from me.

The way I solved it was, I told him straight up how I felt. I said "Look, there's already rumors about you and all those girls. About you cheating and everything. You're adding to the rumors by talking to them on the phone and hanging out with them. It hurts me and if it really does continue I don't know what we should do. It hurts too much to sit here and let that happen. So make a choice on what you want to do."
And he picked to leave them alone and stop hanging out with them.

Maybe you need to do the same. And just tell him straight up how you feel. I mean I might be wrong but this did work for me. I just settled things with him and he stopped hanging out with the girls. Maybe thats all you need to do. But, be carefull of what you say so there won't be fighting going on.

Good luck. :*<3

Well, I don't know your boyfriend, so I'm not sure if he's lying or not. YOU do know him, though. And so, listen to your gut. Honestly, this guy sounds a little shady. If you really do care about this boy, then give him a chance to explain. But wait for it to be face-to-face. Body language and eye contact are a key to finding out the truth. If he seems like he honestly does care about you and he has a legit excuse for hanging out with his ex, then give him a second chance. Or don't. It's up to you. And if he is a cheating douche bag, then kick him to the curb. No man is worth your tears and the one who is won't make you cry.

I get why your upset, but jumping to conclusions isn't going to help anyone.
Get your temper down and then talk to him. You're going to get no where if you're all rilled up.

it doesn't sound like cheating to me.....maybe he's trying to set her straight...I don't know:\