i don't know i mean when your young everyone see's it as wierd for a 16 yr old to be goin out with a 13 yr old but say if you were like 20 and 17 it wouldnt really matter
Well the thing is, there's a lot of difference in three years. I mean, once you are sixteen, going out with someone more than a year older than you won't matter and going out with someone only a year younger than you won't matter.
But if you're under 16, stick to the one year thing. And if you are 16, don't go out with a 13 year old. Unless you reallllllly realllllly think he/she is something special.